Participation Trophiess: Helpful Or Successful?

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Participation Trophies Are Not Helping You or Your Child “If everyone is special, no one is. If everyone gets a trophy, trophies become meaningless.” This was a quote said by David McCullough Jr. in his famous You’re Not Special speech. This quote is very true about the great participation trophy debate. This debate has been going on for a long time and has still not been settled. While participation trophies help boost the confidence of non-winners, participation trophies are useless because no one will be motivated to get better of everyone has trophies and trophies cost a lot of money to make. If everyone gets a trophy, then there is no more competition in sports, without competition no one will be motivated to get better. In Former

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