Parenting In Holland's Eulogy For Disabled Children

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We often sympathize with the disabled and give praise to their achievements, but we understandably overlook the caretakers who provide the devotion and care to enlighten the path to success for them. A parent is often the devoting caretaker who takes to the precautions when tending to children and thinks thoroughly before any situation occurs. Welcome to Holland, an applicable metaphor that alludes to what the birth of a disabled child means. Emily explains the experience as an awaiting trip to Italy, being prepared and excited. Only suddenly does realization appear when the flight lands in Holland, a place that is unfamiliar, yet lovely and appreciation is discovered after observing Holland’s unique features. Although it is more work rearranging

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