Narcissism Research Paper

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Narcissism- the pursuit of gratification from vanity or egotistic admiration of one's own attributes. Social media- computer-mediated technologies that facilitate the creation and sharing of information, ideas, career interests and other forms of expression via virtual communities and networks. One would look at these two definitions and probably say they do not correlate. But, does social media make a narcissist? Or does it enhance that trait in a person. The term “Narcissistic” originated from Greek mythology, where the young Narcissus fell in love with his own image reflected in a pool of water. That fact alone, I feel links the two together; Social media is all about image. That’s the first step to the narcissistic tendencies. Secondly, …show more content…

It shouldn’t be so easily influenced but comparing yourself to others is on the rise. You wouldn’t think that comparisons would correlate with narcissistic behavior, but it does. When people scroll through their news feeds, they are envious and full of jealousy most of the time. She’s prettier, she’s more physically fit, she’s more successful. All those things go around and come right back to you. Ultimately how you feel about yourself, which makes you want to change. “I can’t wait to start working out and posting progress pics.”. Things such as that should be for yourself, not to compete with others on social networking sites. Don’t get me wrong, a little friendly competition is good; but you should want to do these things for yourself and not the approval of others. Constantly seeing the positive side of things and not the negative is not only making us more focused on making our lives better or at least seem that way but its also making us pessimists. We see others post their “perfect bodies” or “perfect relationship” and wonder why we can’t have that. Meanwhile, there’s so much more to it. It’s no where near perfect, but why would someone share that openly. Us seeing only these perfect instances, is doing so much harm mentally and …show more content…

Our personality is supposedly formed around second grade. Which makes this theory questionable; Could social media actually make us narcissist? Or is it just enhancing the narcissism. Social media does seem to focus in on you, yourself, and it. So, could it just be bringing out this trait, not actually “creating” it? Facebook's policy doesn't allow users to register until the ripe age of 13. Considering our personalities are supposedly formed by then, does this theory become irrational? It may truly just be an enhancer rather than a creator. So, social networking isn’t 100% to blame for narcissism, but it definitely does play a role in it. Some may already be slightly narcissistic, but I think others may gain that trait easily. Maybe not full on narcissistic, but most definitely more self-centered. If social media was indeed about being social maybe it wouldn’t be so bad; But considering what it consists of, it makes matters

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