My Incredible Mother

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It's easy to have faith when there is no tribulation. It's easy to dispense analogies when they don't apply to you or when you are giving advice to someone else. All of this is much more difficult when the trial is yours.

Throughout my Mom's life she proved over and over again that she could combat adversity and make rose gardens out of pot holes. My Mom had my sister and I both by the time she was eighteen years old. Even with two kids and a job she was able to stay in school and get her high school diploma. Several years later, with a family and fulltime job she was still able to get her bachelors degree. It was many years later before I realized how hard she worked to be a single parent and keep my sister and I clothed, fed, educated and virtually unaware of the stresses of single-parent life. We never knew that there wasn't a money fairy that just provided whatever was needed pay for things. When I finally looked back on those days I remember my Mom working two jobs virtually every day of the week to get my sister and I into the school we wanted to attend, keep a roof over our heads, food on the table, and dressed in the current fashions of the day.

Mom felt compelled to try and make sure that she pleased everyone all the time. This was always obvious in how hard she worked to please her family, friends, co-workers, and even people didn't know or barely knew.

Mom was a perfectionist and if you ever went into her house it was immaculately clean and perfectly decorated. My house is neither but I continue to hope that someday genetic memory will kick in and we'll be able to do the same thing.

My Mom was eternally patient with her kids. As a teenager and young adult ...

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...ionships. I'm glad that my Mom and sister and I have always been very close. My mom lifted our spirits and now her spirit has been lifted. I know that Mom is doing much better now and is happier than any of us can imagine.

In a beautiful blue lagoon on a clear day, a fine sailing-ship spreads its brilliant white canvas in a fresh morning breeze and sails out to the open sea. We watch her glide magnificently through the deep blue and gradually see her grow smaller and smaller as she nears the horizon. Finally, where the sea and sky meet, she slips silently from site; and someone near me says, "There, she is gone." Gone where? Gone from sight - that is all. She is still as large in mast and hull and sail, still just as able to bear load. And we can be sure that, just as we say, "There, she is gone!" Another says, "There she comes!"

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