Hi My Love,
I’m writing this letter because there is something I have to tell you, and I haven’t had the courage yet to say it to your face. As you are reading this letter, I want you to remember that I love you so much and am only telling you this because I see a real future with you, and could see myself as your future wife.
This is one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to tell you, and as I’m writing this(in my car, on my lunch break) there are tears rolling down my face. I have prayed countless nights for God to change my heart, but He hasn’t. First of all, I want you to know that I support you in all of the dreams you have for your life, and will continue to support you, no matter the outcome to this letter.
With that being said, with
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After a lot of praying and heartbreak, the answer is no, I don’t want to be a military wife.
I want a husband who is in control over the decisions that are made for our life and our family. I want a husband who can travel freely with me anytime, anywhere, when we have the opportunity. I want a husband involved in our day to day life, and an active, true partner in our marriage. I want to have the opportunity to have a career of my own, and be successful based on my own merit. I want someone who will always be able to hold my hand on the best days and the worst. I want him to be able to be standing by my side when we hear our baby’s heartbeat for the first time. I want to share in the intimacy with him on the day our babies are born and hear their first cries. I want to be able to face life’s uncertainties knowing that the decisions we make and the way they are handled will be as a team. I want my husband to help me take care of our parents when they get old and sick and are living
May the love you express to each other today, always be the first thoughts during any trying times in the future.
wake up to see the face of a drill sergeant shouting at me to get up.
You are the light in my life, my happiest thought in the darkest of times. I know that you’re always there for me, no matter what. I have so many wonderful memories with you in the time that we have been together. It seems that everything about you fills my heart with love, even a simple smile makes my heart beat faster. Even after a year being with you, I find myself falling more and more in love with you each time I’m with you. It’s like an endless sea; the moment I think I cannot love you anymore, you do something so warm and thoughtful, and the ocean overflows. I find it hard to put into words just how much you mean to me, because I feel as if there are not enough words in the world to say how I truly feel towards you. You have flipped my whole world upside-down, I never knew how committed and passionate I could be for
Reintegration as a family after military deployment is not an easy experience, neither is it a natural happening. Reintegration is not an event but a process that requires some time and effort. It also requires one to understand that every individual underwent some form of change during the separation. During the process of separation each individual in a family may have developed his/her role in the family structure. The reintegration process can however prove quite disappointing and stressful. Managing reintegration process requires patience, preparation, realistic expectations and understanding of each other. In this essay, I will analyze
Family is an exceedingly important part of our everyday lives. Whether we have been reared in traditional family life or not we recognize the importance of growing up in a strong family environment. Being part of a military family is different though with the military families having to face harder situations than those regular families. They are constantly striving to overcome the negative trials as well as deal with their positive incomings. Children are often negatively effected, the significance of building family bonds increases, and the spouse are put through an abundance of stress.
I need this scholarship to achieve my goals and most importantly to make my family proud. My family did not get this chance that you are giving me so I am not just doing this for me, I am also doing this for them. I already have all the support from all of my family and all of my friends, but that alone is not enough to conquer my dreams, and to prove all the people that have doubted me that they were wrong. I hope that this organization can help me reach my goals, and to most importantly make them become a reality. I want to look back onto my life and know that this scholarship, and college helped me to be the man I will be. I hope you accept me into your college and most importantly giving me this
I hope that you can see my education and future are advancing as we speak. This doesn’t mean I haven’t had a few bumps in the road, because I have. Actually, some of the bumps have unfortunately been financial aid. But, I am growing. It is a day to day continual experience of growth and it’s exciting for me to see where it takes me. Again, thank you for this opportunity and all the work you do as an organization.
Military wives are perceived as stay at home moms that sit at home all day and take care of the kids. My views on the wives of soldiers is that they are pretty much single parents while their husbands are deployed. The wives are expected to keep the house up and running by doing the housework, cooking, cleaning and caring for the children. People on the outside looking in may think that all of the wives are unemployed and living off of their husbands. The wives are forced to deal with all the duties that, are they are supposed to share as a couple. In situations like this the wife may feel extremely overwhelmed, but the additional workload along with the work that she was doing before their husband was deployed. The conduction
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Every day that I wake up and every night before I fall asleep, I thank God that we met, because without you I would be nothing. Through the hard times you have held my hand, through the rough times you have held me close to you, and through the ups and downs you have stayed by my side. What else could I ask for? When I am sick you tuck me in. You have brought back the person that everyone loved and have helped me learn to be the person I always wanted and knew I could be.
I look forward to making this dream a reality. I thank you for taking your time to evaluate my application and take part in making this dream of mine a reality.
In November, I will show you my true self and show you all that is in my heart, that I can only vaguely describe to you. You captured my heart fully this year and I'm glad it was you that did it. This is just the beginning of our lifelong journey together. My first path is southwest to be with you. The words of this letter cannot fully describe how I feel about you but they are the words and the small voice of my heart. You are a one of a kind woman and I want you to know that. I cannot wait to finally have you in my arms again and declare you safe from world's harm. I cannot wait to feel your soft lips against mine. I cannot wait to feel your heartbeat. I cannot wait to look into your bright, beautiful green eyes and tell you I love you. I cannot wait to run my fingers through your long, flowing blonde hair to ease your worries.
In conclusion, I would like to take this opportunity to thank you for enabling me to express myself. I would be very thankful if I am offered an admission in your esteemed university.
You are so full of wisdom about life that when you speak I could stay there forever and listen to your open mind, for it is peaceful and inviting. Anthony, you have become my awakening, you have helped me see things in a brighter way, happier, and more enlightening way. I was once drowning from my own fears, completely cynical about love, hope, and security. I used to think that no one understood me and never would. Then one day before I knew you personally, you came into my thoughts and I wasn't sure why you were there. Suddenly I felt reassured and a smile was brought to my face. I believe deep down that I loved you then.
It seems that over the years, true love has been expressed less and less. We are bombarded with holiday cards filled with someone else’s words, and are practically forced to send our love in an email. How often do we actually sit down and write out our feelings to the one we love? “To My Dear and Loving Husband,” however, is the quintessential love letter. Anne Bradstreet shares her feelings for her husband in such a loving way that could make anyone’s heart melt.