Do you ever wish something never happened, after it actually happened. For example, you start to talk to a cute guy who you barely know. He seems super nice and funny until it turns out that he's a player. Like you felt on top of the world when you guys were talking, and then everything is shattered because you were just played. Well that's exactly what happened to me, and it was not pleasant. What happened was that over the summer, a cute junior boy started talking to me. His name is Miles Teegan. Of course, me being a still-single sophomore, I happily started to befriend him quickly. He would tell me that I was pretty and that he was really into me. I was so naive that I believed everything he told me. I would try my best to flirt with …show more content…
Junior Boy and I started to talk about meeting each other and maybe even starting something together. Obviously, I wasn't the one to say no. So I tried to meet up with him at the mall one day before school was about to start. As I wait patiently at one of the food court tables, I see something that broke my heart into millions of pieces. Miles Teegan was holding hands and kissing Carly Oleman. I watched them with my own teary eyes as they broke apart and smiled at each other. I felt like my whole world was falling down to oblivion and I couldn't do anything to stop it. But the cherry on top was when Miles Teegan turned to his left and looked me right in the eyes. I couldn't feel anything. I felt numb with sadness, anger, regret, heartbreak, and disbelief. I immediately stood up and walked out of the court and out to the bus stop. And it's funny because, I almost wanted him to come running after me. But even I knew that wouldn't happen. Right when I got home, I ran to my room and fell to the floor in tears. I couldn't believe how gullible I was to easily open up to someone I didn't even know. The worst part about it was that I actually told him I liked him. I told the piece of shit that I liked him and that I really wanted to date him. That was probably the biggest mistake I've made by
We instantly started talking about the film we wanted to see and proceeded to get our tickets together. After the movie, he politely asked if it was okay for him to hold my hand and I let him. We walked around the whole mall hand-in-hand talking about the movie we just watched. Then we went outside for a full-blown make out session in a secluded spot. The only reason we stopped was because security told us to leave the premises, we could have easily been there all night. My mom had dropped me off at the mall that night and so he offered to give me a ride home. Right before dropping me off he asked for me to be his girlfriend. And then he shared he was already falling deeply in love with me. I was so shocked by how fast it all happened and it all seemed like a dream to me. I agreed to be his girlfriend, but told him a benevolent lie when I also agreed that I was also falling in love with him already because I did not want to hurt his feelings (Alder, pg 97). Our first date was intriguing because it first felt like we were barely initiating our relationship, then experimenting, then straight to intensifying, all the way to integrating the relationship by the end of the night.
Seth was a junior that year and I do not remember much from that time other than seeing him. We never really talked or associated with one another. Then, in February of 2014, we started conversing through the app Snapchat. I knew from the beginning that I really liked him. The following June, I sent him a picture of a rainbow bracelet, which led to us revealing our secrets to one another. We began talking almost everyday and quickly became more than friends. A week after we started talking we went on our first date to a hike in Norris. The hike was so wonderful. I had not had that much fun in a long time. After that magical day in Norris, we began to hang out more and more. Without a doubt, it was the best summer of my
The time was around 10:30 and my eyelids felt as heavy as a brick to keep open. I was just about to shut everything down for the night, when the loud sound of a snapchat notification startled me awake. I looked at the blaring screen of my phone in the dark, to see it was from my friend Jordan. Flirting with each other was our thing, but nothing more. At the end of everything, he's a junior and I'm a freshman, he still wants me to grow up a little bit. I opened up
I couldn’t believe it. I read and reread the message ten times before I responded just to make sure it was actually meant for me. So I slowly typed, “Hi, how are you doing?” At this point, I was the happiest girl on Earth. We talked for a couple of minutes. At the end, we exchanged phone numbers. We texted everyday! Talking to him was relaxing. It seemed as if he already understood me before I even knew his last name. We grew closer and closer as friends, but neither of us knew if we should actually be together. I don’t know what it was about him, but he already had me claiming him before he even asked me out. I’m usually the type of girl who doesn’t care about anything too much, but I don’t know why this guy had me going crazy for him.
It was not until we began hanging out with the same group of friends that we actually started to have truly engaging conversations. Once I got an idea of who he was at a basic level the more intrigued I was. This brings us to the experimenting stage, we began surrounding ourselves with the same group of people more and more as time went on. I was definitely interested in him at the time and because we were constantly together in group activities, I became fond of how he interacted in a group setting. He came off as a very kind, intelligent and humorous person. This encouraged me to get to know him on a deeper level. The curiosity I had really pushed me into the intensifying stage. We began hanging out more at school, working on the same projects and spending more time together aside our usual group activities. At this point, we began going on dates and had strong intentions on beginning a relationship. It was clear that we wanted to start a structure in our lives that actively involved one
We sat together on the swingset that we were both obviously too big for. I was counting his freckles and he was playing with my curls. I thought he was going to crack a joke or kiss my cheek.
When I first started, I met him and automatically thought he was the cutest thing ever. After a couple days of flirty, I finally decided to give him my number. We stayed on the phone all the time and texted all day. After about a month or two of texting, he finally asked the big question, “Will you be my girl?” I excitedly said yes because it was my first time being asked to be someone’s girl. About three days later we went on a date to the movies and I decided it was time for him to meet my parents. At the time I had already met his mother because she worked at the Commissary with us. When he entered the house my parents introduced themselves, conversated for a bit, then that was it. Everyone knows that moment when a guy meets the girl’s parents, it’s kind of a big deal, mine was the complete opposite. As I walked in the door from the movie that night, my parents were pretty impressed with him. Then I being nonchalant with situation just sat back and said “Yeah, he’s pretty
My date (we’ll call him Bob to protect the not-so-innocent) arrived at my house dressed in dirty jeans and a T-shirt; I, on the other hand, was wearing a nice black pants-suit. When I asked him where we were going on our date, he replied, incredulous, "Oh. You want to go somewhere?" At this point, I probably should have sent the boy packing, but I replied, somewhat sarcastically, "Yes, that would be nice." I was thinking dinner, maybe a movie; what I got was a drive around our boring town which culminated in spending an hour on a deserted playground where he wanted to make out. When we finally arrived back at my place, he told me he had a great time and asked me if I wanted to go out again. I answered that I would "think about it," as I let the door shut quietly on his surprised face.
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