Family Moral Values

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Many years ago, families had moral values that served a purpose in their lives. Mothers stayed at home and care for the children while dads went to work and provided for the family. In the home mothers would make the children to do their chores and homework before they could go outside and play. Back then, there were no computers or video games to play with so kids had to entertain themselves. By the end of the week, the family would go to church on Sunday. These were simple family values that build foundations for families back in the day. People were committed in doing the right thing. Even though most families could not afford fancy cars or nice clothes, they continued to make the best of everything. The most important value learned back then was respect and self-respect. Parents taught their children to respect them and other adults and respect themselves. Teens of today lacked the simple values of yesterday because of the exposure to negative things in the world. “But the most significant aspects of any cultural cod may be conveyed implicitly, not by rule or lesson but through modeling behavior” (Barnlund, 2000, p56). In spite of this, they have the freedom to explore the internet, listen to the negative lyrics of today’s music, play violent video games and watch inappropriate contents on TV. The reality is that teens have lost their sense of direction in the fast pace world that we live in. Why do we blame the world for the deceptive things our kids do? The media has obviously contributed to the materializing of our children. We can only learn from the negative things and then try to build strong family values and teach our children how to make good decision. Today, many youths have to face society when they have no famil... ... middle of paper ... ...time with their children and become more involved in their lives. If we were to compare parents of today to parents from back in the day, it would be no comparison because parents of today are more into themselves. They would go out and buy an expensive vehicle or buy the latest fashion of clothes instead of putting money away for their children’s college education. In other words, parents today are lacking morals values. We cannot put all of the blame on our children. The world we live in now is a different world than yesterday because we allowed technology to control our mind and heart. We allowed our children to live this way and it robs us of the strong morals that our ancestors stood for. Reference Barnlund, D. (2000). Communication in a Global Village. In Brunk, T., Diamond, S., Perkins, P., & Smith, K. (Eds.), Literacies (pp. 56). New York, N.Y.

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