Eleanor Of Aquitaine's Courtly Rules Of Love

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In relationships today we have a set of boundaries that are what we think of as common knowledge. Clearly, it is a horrible thing to take a woman by force. What most of us don't know is that these rules and expectations derived from Eleanor of Aquitaine's Courtly Rules of Love. Eleanor has done may amazing things throughout her life, one of these was writing the Rules of Courtly Love with her daughter, Marie in 1174 to write down standards for relationships that Eleanor wished were expectations at the time of her marriages. Eleanor's adult life was one of tragedy in terms of love. She was married off to protect the Aquitaine in which she inherited at the mere age of 15. She was first married to Louis VII in 1137 and had a rough marriage until …show more content…

Eleanor married King Henry II. This marriage was doomed from the start and there are many rules that stand out of the Courtly Rules of Love that bloomed during her marriage with Henry. Her tenth rule especially, stating that Love is always a stranger in the home of avarice is true as proved by Eleanor's life. Henry was extremely avarice and it was a huge part of why the marriage between him and Eleanor did not go well. Eleanor had what henry wanted, the land. Eleanor needed a husband to keep her safe so the land wouldn't end up in the wrong hands and so she would be physically safe. Henry's lust for land was always strong and with the land, he got when he married Eleanor meant he technically had more land than the king of France, something he had always wanted. Their marriage was a political match, they both got what they needed but it was all politics, rather than a marriage of love and want. When you marry with avarice something is bound to go wrong. Another way Henry’s avarice played a part in the downfall of the king and queen of England was when he killed the Archbishop of Canterbury out of greed and selfishness. On December 29, 1170, he did one of the most horrific crimes against the church, he had Thomas A Becket hacked to death in the cathedral of Canterbury. Henry allowed his avarice to take over and the results of …show more content…

His actions are well known throughout the history books, and the affair influenced Elanor’s writing of the rules, as represented in her 3rd rule, No one can be bound by a double love. According to a bio of Eleanor on history.com, “While the reasons for the breakdown of her marriage to Henry remain unclear, it can likely be traced to Henry’s increasingly visible infidelities.” Henry had a longtime affair with The Fair Rosamond daughter of Walter de Clifford, throughout his marriage with Eleanor. King Henry was not very good at hiding his affair and he did eventually marry Rosamond. While the exact timeline for the affair with Rosamund is unknown it is proven through history that the affair was long. According to Teresa McLean, in the book, Medieval English gardens, “The bower was a maze, in the center of which Henry II made love to Rosamund Clifford, his mistress, where Queen Eleanor could not discover them.” Throughout the marriage, Henry made an attempt to conceal the affair from his wife by keeping Rosamund in a maze in his park at Woodstock. Eleanor however eventually found out and devised a play to take down her husband. This affair tore their marriage to shreds and caused the beginning of the fight against King Henry, and the creation of the Courtly Rules of

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