ELEVATING BROTHERHOOD: What is the difference between a friend and a brother

787 Words2 Pages

I find it astounding that the online dictionary defines “Brotherhood” simply as: The relationship between brothers. This is, of course, accurate from a naive and plain point of view. However this, in no way, can come close to the true meaning of the idea.
My first year attending Keyman (Pennsylvania DeMolay’s week long leadership conference) I was a fairly new and scrawny DeMolay. I couldn’t speak in front of people, had no clue how to even handle suits or professional attire, and barely had scratched the surface of all of our Orders facets and faces. But there I was, in the frighteningly large, open, and fancily decorated Memorial Hall, checking in for my first Keyman Conference. I had no idea I would change so much in a single week. After checking in and saying goodbye, my grandparents left and I was greeted by one of my group Advisors for the week, Dad Ullom. He showed me to my room, and I was the first one there. As I sat silently amid the 6 bunk-beds, I wondered how my weekend would pan out. One by one, new faces were ushered into the room by Dad Ullom, and more bags filled the room. Nervously, I decided it would be a good idea to introduce myself, as I knew I would be with the other boys all week. I was a little surprised when they were calm, nonchalant even about meeting a new DeMolay. I was even more stunned when, as the group began to slowly unpack, we started talking.
We started talking about ourselves, what chapter we were from, how cool we thought Dad Ullom’s mustache was, what we were going to be doing all week and any topic that came up through our conversation. We started laughing and getting more comfortable, slowly trying to remember each others name and faces. There was an air of certainty, a reassuring feeli...

... middle of paper ...

...es of absolute trust and confidence in brotherhood is Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid. The tragic story, and the entire plot underlines the bond that exists between the two, the strength in the faith they have in their brother.

I am reminded of a poem I used to read from a book of poetry as a you child, Brothers Are Forever by Alex Romero:
Brothers share a special bond,
Like blood, brotherhood,
It’s thicker than water.
Friends may come and go,
And relationships may drift apart,
But brothers are forever.
Though the sun may rise in the east,
And set in the west,
We will still be brothers.
Though the seasons may change,
Spring, summer, fall and winter;
We will still be brothers.
What God has ordained,
No man can change,
Brothers are forever.

Though the poem is simple and non-descriptive, I feel this only adds more to the notion that brothers truly are forever.

Open Document