Definition Essay: What Defines Me?

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“What defines me?” is a question I've asked myself. As Oscar Wilde says, “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” So who am I?” The truth is: I don't really know. Should I already know all about myself and what defines me, being that I am a new person who is trying to figure out what defines me through experiences and more to come? Growing up in a strict and reserved environment, I didn’t get the chance to be who I am, but the idea of the type of person I should be was brainwashed into me since I was a child. I was taught to be a woman who washes your husband's feet in order to follow gender roles. I was told as a woman, you must act modestly and learn to please everyone or you will be judged by others. The way your life should be arranged

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