Dating vs Steady Dating: A teenage perspective

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That’s the Question
To date or not to date that is the question. The real question is to date a lot of different girls or not to date, and just have one girlfriend. Well there are a few things that are the same but many more differences. If I have a girlfriend or not I can go on dates. Both dating and not dating can be a lot of fun. Also they both can be a challenge, because either way you have to make someone else happy. But there are a lot more differences between the two.

When I have a girlfriend a lot of things are good but there are usually bad sides to all the good. Fortunately, most of the good things outweigh the bad things. When I have a girlfriend I always spend time with her with her and usually have fun. The problem with that is that my friends have a saying, bro’s over ho’s, and that pretty much means, do not ditch us for her. Girlfriends are expensive, lets face it instead, of paying for one, you always pay for two. The problem with this is if I do not have a job. When I have a girlfriend I have someone I can talk about my problems with. The problem with that is when I have a girlfriend ninety percent of my problems are my girlfriend. Face it girls are complicated. Relationships are like giving a caveman a laptop computer, ridiculous.

When I am dating there are a lot of differences from having a girlfriend. There is no commitment when I am dating. So you really do not even have to like the girl that much because next weekend u could be going with a different girl. The problem is I might get a bad reputation as a player, I you might have a harder time getting a girlfriend in the future. When I am dating there is no money problem, because I can choose when to go out on dates. Dating is a lot of fun for the people that do not want to be committed to one person. It can hurt, however, if I start to like the girl and then she decides she wants to go out with someone else, I can not do anything about it.

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