Cult Of True Womanhood Analysis

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In the Cult of True Womanhood, Welter expressed that women are judged in piety, purity, submissiveness, and domesticity. Welter explained that women are not individuals, but always attached to a man as a mother, daughter, sister, and wife (Welter, pg. 1). Welter describes society as viewing women who have had pre-martial sexual relations as “impure” (Ibid, pg. 1). Since virginities are a gift to a girl’s future husband, and the hymen’s intactness is a sign of intelligence, women who lose their virginities prior to marriage are considered brainless (Ibid, pg. 1). Women are responsible to push men away; if they do not, then they must pay the price of “madness or death” (Ibid, pg. 1). Mag Smith, Frado’s mother, had to fend for herself when she
Women encompass the domestic and men the industrial (Welter, pg. 1). When John was defending Frado he said “the child does as much work as a woman ought to” signifying that Frado is a ‘good’ woman. Welters describes a ‘good’ woman in society as a woman who must occupy herself with domestic duties (Ibid, pg. 2). The reason behind the support that Frado received from the men is most probably due to her domesticity. However, when John said “women rule the earth, and all in it” Aunt Abby replied “I think I should rule my own house, John” (Wilson, pg. 44); this dialogue shows how ignorant John is to the stress that women feel in the domestic realm. John’s belief is that women want to rule the earth, when caring for a household is more work than he could ever imagine. Although Welter describes the domestic sphere as the “proper sphere” for women (Welter, pg. 1), Frado was not considered a ‘true’ woman since she is black. The domestic sphere is not Frado’s sphere; she is a server, she does not rule the household, and Mrs. Bellmont makes the fact that Frado is not family clear with such acts as only allowing her a small cramped dark room to sleep in (Wilson, pg.
We can deny migrants oppressions by excluding them from the ability to be recognized in these oppressive spheres that we have identified; we exclude them by stating that these theories of oppression are not applicable to them since they are ‘different’. The Bellmont family justified their semi-enslavement of Frado by convincing themselves that Frado is different because of her skin color and they, as ‘good’ people, are helping Frado; they believe that they are doing something that should be appreciated. Frado was to suffer either way. The men in the family wanted to oppress Frado as a woman, and Mrs. Bellmont and Mary wanted to oppress Frado as a black person. Although Welter’s theory is true to many women, oppression is not a binary. Oppressed people can have power to oppress

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