Cocktail Waitress Summary

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Historically, anthropologists have focused their research on foreign cultures, often considered exotic to westerners. Yet, globalization has created a continuously shrinking world and is increasingly providing sovereignty for developing nations, which may impede research opportunities for modern anthropologists. In their book, “The Cocktail Waitress,” James Spradley and Brenda Mann explain how this recent issue threatens trust and acceptance in these foreign communities and obstructs research funding. Luckily, there are countless subcultures in America’s back yard, in which most are eternally evolving, providing a multitude of research opportunities for anthropologists. Alcohol establishments are home to a plethora of subcultures that display …show more content…

The social hierarchy of Brady’s bar, diagramed in Spradley and Mann’s book (70), displayed female waitresses as one of the lowest tiers other than female customers and people off the street, adding to the legitimacy of male dominance. Countless examples support this unbalanced social structure. For example, bartenders often enjoy an alcoholic beverage before or on the job, yet waitresses needed special permission to do the same. Usually waitresses were allowed soda or water until Brady’s closed. Rarely, a bartender decided it was momentarily acceptable for a specific waitress to enjoy a cocktail before or during employment, but she was expected to flood the gracious bartender with praise and gratitude for this rare opportunity. Likewise, requested to tend the bar, waitresses were flattered and ecstatic to work within this prestigious position. However, a male would never lower himself to do a waitress’s duties, and female employees would not dare ask a man to stoop to their peasant level of work. During a particular event, Denise attempted to make light of this inequality and unwittingly treaded onto forbidden territory. Tending the bar temporarily, Denise was playfully asked by the bartender, Ted, for a drink. Reversing the roles on Ted, Denise told him no because he was working and he could have a soda instead. Ironically, this agitated Ted, although this was a typical …show more content…

Considered commonplace for male customers to touch or grab at them, waitresses smiled and cordially served the men who were degrading them to the level of an object, not unlike a toy or a trophy. Unfortunately, the waitresses were also harassed and assaulted by their coworkers and managers. When someone with authority over another person makes sexual comments or advancements in any way, it is an abuse of power. Obviously, the waitresses were unable to address this issue without risking losing their job. Spradley and Mann explain how one of the bartenders, Tom, incessantly attempted to unhook the waitresses’ bras. Although the waitresses noted they were not insulted by this, it is still another example of unbalanced reciprocity within the social structure and diminished the female employees to objectification. Female employees were required to comply with this banter or else risked losing respect, dignity, or honor of themselves or their superiors. Additionally, this joking was also asymmetrical, which limited the female participants. An instance was with Stephanie, John, and a customer bantering and unfortunately ended badly when Stephanie replied, teasingly, to a question regarding the legitimacy of John’s marriage. Although the customer was kidding, and Stephanie was reciprocating the banter, her reply, or lack there of, resulted in

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