Breaking Norms In American Culture

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As our society evolves, our norms do as well. With the rising acceptance of homosexuality, body modification, and ambiguous gender roles, the American culture is still transitioning causing many to wonder what are considered norms. While these people are trying to figure out the new norms of this fast paced society, I found myself breaking one of the most basic norms. With my giant, fluffy robe I went to Meijer’s, Taco Bell, and the gym. When first getting out of my car with my friends to head into Meijer’s I initially felt nervous. Entering the store, I felt several eyes on me, the appearance of the bystanders’ faces were that of confusion, skepticism, and straight up judgment. My friends even joked about pretending not to know me and keeping

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