Understanding the Individual Journey of Grief

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of their pain they want to know that what they are experiencing is normal. Grieving people want to know that they are not alone in what they are experiencing and there is nothing wrong with them. These stages can make a person who is not moving through them the way they are laid out feel like they are not grieving properly and there is something wrong with them. But when you instead present them as a guideline for the feelings and emotions they will experience, depression and anger; and as a guideline for some of the mental processes they will go through, denial, bargaining, and acceptance, they are free to take their time to grieve without expectation. Each person is individual and their relationship with the person they lost is not the same as everyone else and so they will grieve their own way and these guidelines will help them to know they are going to be ok. …show more content…

When someone you love is diagnosed with a terminal illness, they don’t always die within in a week or two, it can take weeks, months, or a year. These new stages truly help to recognize that what they are experiencing is normal and that they are on the right track. But they need to make it clear that not everyone will progress to the next stage together. There will be some who will fight moving on to the next stage because they know that to get to a point of unity and accepting means that the inevitable is drawing near and they will want to try and stop the

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