Embracing Vulnerability: A Personal Journey

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As human, there is always something we are sensitive to, whether a comment from our peers or a randoms situation that shake our comfort zone. In the same perspective, my emotions tend to be the driving force that can drawn me from my own comfort zone. Then, whenever, I feel like I am overreacting due to change of my emotion, I have this immediate hint to be vulnerable_by talking to someone. As I am in the process of sharing my feeling, I feel realize from a burden. Vulnerability for me has been the mic that help me to release the pain that my heart and my entire body feel. Since this wednesday, when I meet for the first time my Wellness counselor, my motto has been “Vulnerability or Nothing Else”. Being vulnerable to my world help me to overtake …show more content…

We most of the time assimilate culture to the word environment, and the familial environment is always not open to deep, and honest sharings. Mostly, those sayings are considered Taabo. For about 18 years, I have failed to deepen into a tradition of sharing my thoughts, the feelings, the choices, my eases with the persons around me_my parents. And even when trying to do so, the response will most of the time discourage you to try again. Failure to actually accomplish such a task with the people you live with can unconsciously impact the way you deal with failures. As a result, this leads me to reject the failures. Whenever a situation was presented to me, I will rather run away from it as I failed to understand the meaning of growth mindset. I failed the day I was not accepted as the Academic representative of my school. Even though I show a sense of growth mindset, inside, I still felt that I was not incapable of winning an election. For me success was much more important than the idea of learning and receiving feedback from others. Unfortunately since this day, honestly, I have always denied being candidate for any election, even if someone nominated me. But still, I realize that I was on the wrong turn and understand that I should have been vulnerable to this situation. I should have open myself to the idea that I should not only be vulnerable about my

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