Attachment And Family Attachment

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How deep children bond with their primary caretakers will impact their personality, emotionally wellbeing, and the quality of relationship after they growing up. Infants not only have physical needs, but also emotional needs such as being touched and responded regularly. If children do not form secure attachment with their caretakers, after growing up, they might find it hard to form close relationship, having troubles in resolving conflicts, being risky in emotional well-being. Therefore, because attachment influence significantly the social functionality of a person, it is vital to know how to build secure attachment with children, especially for new parents, and therapists focused on family therapies (Bowlby, 2008). This paper will introduce To illustrate, infants generally form intensive and exclusive love with caregivers (Kassin, Fein, and Markus, 2017), for the reason that infants cannot survive without the food, shelter, and affection provided from their caregivers. Therefore, toddles always feel uncomfortable when their caretakers leave which indicates the opportunity of being dying without care. In other words, infants are sensitive for the potential danger if their primary attached figure is not nearby. As a result, they would be distress until recieving responses from their primary caretakers (Bowlby, 2008). There are four types of parental attachment, secures, preoccupied (anxious attached), avoidants, and disorganized (fearful attached), distinguished by the strange situation where children are separated from the primary caregivers (Kalat, 2014). According to Kalat (2014), the secure infants display anxiety, crying shortly when their mothers leave, and recover from the negative emotions easily after the mothers came back. By contrast, children with three types of insecure attachment do not show the same level of intimacy after mothers coming

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