Ancient Roman Family Life

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Family has always played a crucial foundation in any society, ancient or modern, as it provides the grounds upon which communities, cities, and eventually civilizations are built. Such was the case with Rome, which grew from a city upon a hill into one of the greatest empires this world has ever seen. However, family life, in all cultures, rests on the institution of marriage, which is the first level upon which families are built. In Rome, marriage was a fundamental unity, and played an important role in all aspects of life: economic, political, and social. In patriarch societies like Rome, as was the case with many ancient cultures, males tended to be those with the most control and power, especially within their household and relationship …show more content…

Yet, aside from the consent of paterfamilias, there were a number of other requirements necessary to create a valid marriage within Rome. First, and possibly the most important, the couple needed to gain the right/approval for legal intermarriage known as conubium. This required both spouses to be freedmen and allowed a couple the legal capacity to marry. Without conubium, a couple would not be allowed to marry in Rome. Additionally, potential couples also needed to meet the physical capabilities required of marriage, meaning the ability to produce children, as this was the most important role of the institution within Rome. There were also traditional age requirements, although incredibly low by modern standards, which tended to require girls to be at least 12 years old and for boys to be 14 years old. Due to marriage being a monogamous institution within Rome, their also (obviously) needed to be the absence of any other marriage or outstanding relationships. As previously mentioned, consent of paterfamilias was a key factor in any marriage. However, there also needed to be consent between the spouses for a legitimate marriage. This was likely a result of affectio maritalis, a key element in Roman marriage where there needed to be mutual affection expressed by the potential bride and groom. Ultimately, despite a father’s powers, …show more content…

However, one of the notable characteristics of Roman marriage is the variety of its forms. One primary distinction that scholars have made is between two types of marriage: cum manu and sine manu. The first, cum manu, was a marriage where the wife falls under the complete control of her husbands manus, or hand, meaning she would fall under his power and control within their relationship and family. In this instance, power would be transferred from the wives’ father under paterfamilias to the power of her husband in marriage. As noted in “Marriage in Roman Law”, “The husband becomes the judge of the wife, he may alone, in the earlier times, later, in a domestic tribunal where his relatives are called, condemn her to death. He is master of her person and her property, almost, as if conquest had put her into his hands”(IV. 311). Essentially, under a cum manu marriage, women would submit to their husband’s authority. Under these circumstances, “…a mother is always treated as a relative towards her children”(299). Basically, in a cum manu marriage, women were reduced to the role of a daughter in terms of power within her marriage and family. This meant that, similarly to paterfamilias, women were under the control of the father of the family, to the same extent as her children. This signifies how within these marriages, women’s power were greatly reduced, and seemingly only escaped one

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