Even though we have laws that help people get back on their feet, we need to change our laws so we eliminate lifetime alimony or a reduction of time for the financial help of ex-spouses. Without guidelines it authorizes lifetime dependence and also treats women as if they are the weaker sex. Spousal support is often the largest financial obligation that incurs as part of a divorce. Not even bankruptcy will help you avoid spousal support.
When it comes to marriage a lot of people don’t understand that is like a type of business. When people separate it comes with assets taken away. So why should we be obligated to pay a formal spouse since that was the reason of separation? More than likely when someone gets divorce is because they want to be that person no more, they want to get away. Each spouse want to start a new chapter in their life but having laws like alimony it makes it impossible. If alimony is to help a spouse after separation how much help does a person needs if the spouse is paying for lifetime.
Alimony sometimes called spousal support it’s “a payment to or for a spouse or former spouse under a separation or divorce agreement.” (68) It aids them finding a home and a little jump start so they could start supporting themselves. The law was based more for helping woman since most of them were in the work force and most women stayed at home. Alimony or spousal support started in 1970 as part of the Uniform Marriage and Divorce Act. Under the same time the law changed and incorporated divorces as no-fault. It eliminated the tradition ways of thinking about marriage because any one could get divorce without a reason. Under the no-fault divorce your partner could cheat and then split the values of both parties and then c...
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...ome and take care of the kids and woman have high paying jobs.
The only down fall to all of this is how much people are getting divorce this days. People back then did not like the idea of getting divorce. They saw it like a taboo and it broke traditional ways of living. Now that one of two people is getting divorce it creates more problems than it helps. What people do not see is that they are affecting the kids. It’s not the children’s fault that they are getting divorce. Why doesn't the government create laws for families to stay together instead of trying to separating them?
The laws change and things don’t stay the same. I hope we find a better solution so this problem of endless payment. The government should create laws for family to stay together since more and more people are getting separated. Marriage is view as a business and not a family unity.
These days, marriage contracts fortunately treat both men and women the same, and look at it as more of a partnership rather than a legal contract with economical advantages. (Bernstein, 2011) Today, women have more goals than getting married and having children, most want to go to college and having a successful career. It is normal for a woman to be completely successful all on her own without a husband. These days, a woman can be the bread winner of her family while her husband is a stay at home father. There are also several single working mothers and single working
... had to forgo financial security during divorce proceedings to avoid further abuse. Therefore, the battered are more likely to be impoverished, as they grow older.
According to Rodgers (1995) no-fault divorce was implemented to make divorce less restrictive, and more importantly removes the factor of fault in that it removes the need for one party to be guilty or innocent. No-fault divorce law recognises that a breakdown of the relationship between spouses can result in them no longer being able to function as a married couple, and instead seeks to reduce the legal obstacles, economic costs, and psychological consequences of divorce (Rodgers 1995). Due to these factors, divorce may have become more accessible to low income families had who previously been unable to afford it under fault-based divorce. On the other hand, no-fault divorce may have become more attractive to high income families in particular the “guilty” spouse who under fault-based legislation faced alimony payments, child support payments and loss of property to the “innocent” spouse (Rodgers 1995). The role that the no-fault law plays in divorce is that of a societal structure, in that it encompasses an association between individuals and the social institution that is the American legal system on a sizable scale throughout American society.
There was a time when women typically maintained the home and raised children while the husbands were the sole bread-winners for the family finances. However, times have changed and so have women’s rights and expectations for divorce, education, an...
The controversy, however, lies in the argument from critics that restricting couples from marriage or imposing fines or penalties is unjust. Jennifer Daw, a therapist with the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy quoted an article from USA Today wherein opponents argued that, “divorce regulations or restrictions would create messier divorces, not prevent them and tougher restrictions on divorce could endanger women in abusive marriages.” People were once required to negotiate in divorce. The “No Fault Divorce” has changed that and takes the ground...
Sociological Analysis of Divorce as a Social Problem and Proposed Solutions Every year approximately 2.4 million marriages occur. Out of those,2.1 millionwill file for divorce in the United States. These marriage and divorce rates have significantly increased since the years past(Coltrane and Adams, 364).According to Schoen, in the 1950’s, 15 out of 1,000 marriages ended in divorce. In the 1970’s, the rates of divorcedoubled,increasing to 40 per 1,000 marriages. Currently, the rate of marriages resulting in divorce remains the same.
Divorce is a process that many people in America go through. The divorce rate continues to escalate over the years. Divorce is a serious problem, it is a gradual process that ultimately results in families breaking up. There are various factors in which a marriage can fail and end up in divorce. Some skip the step of trying to reconcile things and make it work. In some cases it is easy for a divorce to take place. For instance, in cases where both parties are in agreement and have no children it is easier to handle a divorce. But in the cases where children are present, what happens to the kids? Both parents are at each others throats or one is devastated from the rejection, what role does the child play? It is a hard thing to cope with as an adult imagine as a little one or even a teenager, it affects them in more ways than anyone can imagine. It can affect them both physically and emotionally. The effects of divorce are immense, it permanently weakens the bond or relationship between a child and his parents. Can lead to them reaching out or looking to others for attention, causing poor attitudes, low self esteem, dropping grades, loss of virginity, use of drugs and or weapons, or in some cases mutilation of the body. There are various effects that children have to deal with that maybe extremely hard to cope with. One parent may say one thing yet the other disagrees and makes it impossible for the child to have a stable relationship with both of them. Children need both biological parents at their side to be guardians and counselors in their lives, to be examples of what they need to do to become outstanding citizens in our community.
Since males acquired all the assets and children during a divorce, a woman’s only hope to gain freedom and assets was to rel...
One tough thing about today's American family is divorce. In 1816, one marriage out of one hundred ended in divorce. Then between the years 1869-1888, divorce increased up to one hundred and fifty percent. And the worse, between the years 1960-1980, the divorce rate increased up to two hundred and fifty percent. Divorce rates peaked in 1981 and then started to decline a little during the mid 1980's. However, divorce rates now are as high as they have ever been. Now fifty percent of all marriages end in divorce. There are five reasons for the increase in divorce. The first reason is in modern societies; individual happiness is regarded to be important so when people are unhappy with their marriage, they break-up and split. The second reason is it is easier to get divorced financially. The third reason is that women's economic independence has contributed. The fourth reason is the stigma of divorce has lessened so people are not
However, the cuts to legal aid along with the budget reductions for the court service may result in amplified number of people attempting to acquire divorce without legal representation. This may cause the government to re-evaluate the current divorce system in order to reduce the pressure on courts.
Divorce is a growing epidemic in Canada and the United States. It affects both parties involved, being the spouses, and also has a profound affect on children of the marriage. Recently our government has been revising the old divorce act. It was apparent that it was time to revise the act because it did not properly protect the children from being caught in the middle of things.
There are five major steps when it comes to getting a divorce. There is “Filing a Petition” where the couple must meat “the separation requirements”. Following is notifying the other spouse by having them “served.” Next will be the “Temporary Hearing” where they “establish temporary child or spousal support.” This is followed by the “Agreement” or the final decisions made in order to “settle all maternal issues”. Then finally a “Trail” where the final details are decided by a judge very shortly after all material is presented (Obringer). As if this process isn’t enough of a toll, there are also many other changes each spouse must go through in order to begin a new life as a single person again. A few of the adjustments include money, career changes, and emotional tolls. For some families going from a two person income to one can change their accustomed life style where “money becomes a significant problem.” This can lead to work problems where the exosystem, links between a social setting as stated in the Life-Span textbook by the Bronfenbrenner Ecological Theory, is effected and the spouse could become “less focused at work” or even loss their job, or become forced to find something with a better pay, though less enjoyable, so they will be able to provide for their families. These two things alone often cause major
Some people are laid off from their companies; consequently the stress occurs in their family, which leads to divorce. Some families can earn money, but inadequate for covering their expenses, therefore it is easy to think about divorce. Nevertheless, the unemployment rates trend to continually increase as a result the divorce rates can also rise.
From the public eye, divorce is trending, however that is not necessarily true. The highest divorce rates occurred during the 1980’s, and has continued a slow and steady decline since then. Although divorce is not at its peak, it is however more accepted than ever. Before Alaska passed the no-fault divorce law in 1963, it was legally impossible to get a divorce. By 1985 all states had jumped on the no-fault divorce laws band wagon. Divorce affects more than just the couple, it has a huge impact on other family members, the community and the economy. Divorce comes with with many hardships, in hindsight there may be more positive aspects than you may think.
Divorce is another thing that was like “illegal” 50 years ago. Divorce is tragic for the children in the family today and causes the children to hate both or one of the parents. Divorce causes total chaos. This may result in the children to be neglected because single parents need to work to support themselves and their children. Thus, causing no guidance for a growing child. Losing touch with family ties have caused a lot of trouble and will continue to cause more.