My Social Identity Essay

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A social Identity that I think most about is my gender. Being a girl in India there are some expectations and standards that need to be met. I still remember as a 5 year old if my maternal grandfather was ever visiting me I would always have to change out of my skirt because I did not sit in the right way. That was something that stuck with me, being constantly told close your legs and sit. As a 5 year old it made no sense to me, it didn’t make any sense to me till I was at least 10 years old. I would always wonder, why does my brother not have to shut his legs and sit? Growing up I was a tomboy; I would dress like ‘a boy’, only wearing ‘girly’ clothes on special occasions. My parents did not ever mind it, however people around me would pass comments such as “you are wearing a collar t-shirt, again?” My closet contained 32 collar T-shirts, 10 pants and one skirt. People would also worry about whether I identified myself as a man. In reality, I was an 11 year old who was not extremely aware of the concept of gender expectations. Additionally I faced many encumbrances due to my gender. I would not be allowed the same privileges as my brother for the sake of my safety. I would appreciate where my parents were coming from but it still annoyed me. My curfew was 8 PM …show more content…

I just always knew irrespective of whether I got a scholarship; my parents would pay for my education. As growing up my parents had always told me they would go to any lengths to educate me. To the extent I had a phase I fell madly in love with books, they would buy me books worth 100-150 dollars every week. However, I never wondered whether or not I was spoilt. I always got what I needed or wanted as a reward for doing well in an exam or sport or for just being a good child. Except a few isolated incidents, I would never imagine me to be a spoilt

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