A Reflection Of Aphorism In Morrie's Daily Life

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The aphorism, “Let others affection love, concern, interest, admiration, and respect be enough to keep you composed” is a reflection to remember those who love and care about you when life gets stressful or challenging. This aphorism relates to a lot of people in their daily life. Stress can be overwhelming but when you have your family and friends that love you and respect you there will always be someone to talk to. I believe this is one of Morrie’s better aphorisms that reaches out to a lot of different people. Without Morrie’s friends or family there would have been nothing to keep him “composed.” It is the ones closest to us that help us have a clear state of mind when things seem like they are falling apart. Having people who love you …show more content…

It could be seen in his daily life even as a child. During Morrie’s childhood he didn’t really have anyone to give him the love and affections he needed to remained composed. His mother worked at a candy store and he could recall any tender moments they shared. He just remembered how she would sit by the window on her days off and yell for Morrie to get her medicine (Album, Page 73). Morrie’s Father would not even show him affection especially at the dinner table. He kept silent and did not say a word (Album, Page 75). The person to give Morrie that taught him about love and caring was his step mother Eva (Album, Page 77). Thanks to her love, concern, support, and respect Morrie become a professor (Album, Page 78). Initially when Morrie was diagnosed with ALS, the acquaintances he made connections with called him and visited him as many times as they could. That affection, love for Morrie, concern about his health, interest in ALS, admiration for how he was handling it, and respect for him for going on T.V without hiding who he was made him to make light on the situation most …show more content…

He worked all the time and so did I, we let the stress of money and succeeding get to us (Album Page 27). People we said we would keep in contact with we didn’t. It was hard for us to accept affection from others. Mitch realized from talking to Morrie that you to embrace the affections of others, especially family and to cherish the moments you have together (Album Page 93). Mitch puts himself in Morrie 's position and wonders since he did not let others into his life would he keep his composure as well as Morrie did (Album 92). To have connection that allow you to be at peace with your self is a reliable resource, it will help you through the rough times ahead in your life. Mitch was not really good at connecting with people and showing his feeling towards others (Album Page 34). When he reconnected with Morrie that is when he began to understand the importance of those connections. Morrie told Mitch he was like a son to him and Mitch finally accepted someone loving and concern (Album Page

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