Essay On My Transition From Adolescence To Adulthood

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My transition from adolescence to adulthood was shaped through most of my high school years. I have two siblings a sister several years older and brother 1 ½ younger than me, he has always been my best friend. My father told my brother and I that we only have each other and to rely on each other. My ninth grade year of high school was the first time that I had to stand alone without my brother. I was nervous and excited not knowing what to expect but looking forward to such an important milestone. I was in high school looking to identify with myself as well as my peers. I struggled to make friends there were so many kids the school was so big I felt like an ant on a sidewalk with grants. I hadn’t grown into my looks yet I was skinny, wore glasses, …show more content…

I decided that my actions were no longer beneficial to me and I wanted to charge. This transition was scary I had to leave the only friends I’d had outside of my brother and start over. My eleventh grade year changed my life. I didn’t have high school or myself figured out yet but I was ready to dive in and swim. I’d tried fitting in mimicking trends and behaviors of everyone else. Then one day I reflected on my experiences and what I had gained from them, nothing! I wasn’t popular, cool, and I didn’t have a girlfriend or any prospects. Trying to fit in was a constant failure, my last resort was to just be myself. My junior year was the year that I decided to be myself my attitude was positive. I was kind, smart, funny, and I had style. I began to work every day after school at McDonald’s and I joined the drama club. With the money from my job I started buying nicer clothes I didn’t always have the newest fashions or the best attire but my confidence was radiant. The drama club shed light on my humorous side participating in school plays showed my peers my talents. Girls began to notice me I got a girlfriend and I’d had a few admirers. High school wasn’t so bad after all. My eleventh grade year was the first year of high school that concluded in a triumphant

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