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The Russian river is a place in California where Dave and his family would usually go for a vacation. He remembers this place as a quiet and peaceful place. He remembers how he and his brothers would play, how his mother would to hug him, and how they would all watch the sunset together
School was Dave's only refuge away from his mother, and it was the only place he could actually get food and feel safe. Sometimes he would wish to stay at school forever just so he wouldn’t have to stay home with his mother. He dreaded holidays so much. His school was also a place where he felt loved by the nurse and put an end to his abuse.
During breaks at school, Dave would run to the local grocery store and steal food. But this only lasted for a short period of time because he was caught.
Dave's mother would make him sleep in the garage in an old army cot. Sometimes it would get really freezing down there and he didn’t even have anything to cover him. Dad would occasionally sneak him scraps of food, but if he didn’t he would have to starve.
This is where mother played many games of torture with Dave. She played 'Gas Chamber' which is a dangerous game where Dave has to stay in the bathroom with many different chemicals causing him to choke. She also made him swallow ammonia and made him sit in a bathtub of freezing cold water for hours.
David is the author of this auto-biography. He lived the perfect life up until his mother took up drinking at the age of four. Dave enjoyed school and had a wide imagination. He lived a perfect life and was blessed with perfect parents. Everyday was a new adventure filled with fun. He loved his life and his family.
David came to believe that there was no god because "No just God would leave me like this" Pg.131. He had totally disconnected himself from all physical pain. He refused to shed a tear because he didn’t want to show his mother the satisfaction of his defeat. He no longer dreamed at night, nor did he have an imagination. He felt as if his life had no point "I no longer awoke in the mornings refreshed; I was tired and told myself that I had one less day to live in this world" Pg.
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The story of David Pezler was a really interesting and heart-breaking journey. I really enjoyed the book and the description used because it built an image of each abusive moment in my head, therefore giving me a better understanding. Throughout the novel I was urging to read more. I was touched by his sad situations and I never lost interest.
I would definitely recommend this book, but not to the faint hearted. This book has many lessons and morals. 'A Child Called 'It' really made me appreciate the loving family that I have, as I would never have imagined being a victim of torture in my own home. The book opened my eyes to a whole new world. I would not recommend this book to the faint hearted because it can get very disturbing. So if you are a person that can handle it, I highly suggest you read this outstanding novel.