Xenophon's Oeconomicus And Lysias On The Murder Of Eratosthenes

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In Ancient Athens, marriage and the relationship between husband and wife formed the core structure of Greek society. In both Xenophon 's Oeconomicus and Lysias ' On the Murder of Eratosthenes, there is a profound emphasis on the separation of women from men and their role in maintaining an orderly household. Both also establish unambiguous and separate spheres of responsibilities for men and women. However, there exists a clear difference between equality of the relationships and communication between the spouses. While the couple in Oeconomicus engage in an egalitarian, pleasant, and understanding relationship, Euphiletus and his wife 's relationship is opaque, treacherous, and marked by hostility and sparse communication. In both households, …show more content…

The marriages in Ancient Greece are significantly different from contemporary American marriages primarily in the roles of the sexes, but also concerning the level of communication between spouses. The chief similarity notable in both passages is the descriptions of the roles of men and women and the separate spheres they exist in. In Oeconomicus, Ischomachus describes how God naturally created women and men in order to fulfill two different roles - separated into the indoor and outdoor realm. According to Ischomachus, because "Man 's body and soul He furnished with a greater capacity for enduring heat and cold, wayfaring and military marches...", men are better fit to perform tasks in the outdoor …show more content…

In Oeconomicus, Ischomachus stresses the equal nature of the division of property, saying "there is our house here, which belongs alike to both. It is common property...". In addition, he also stresses the shared nature of raising children, stating "...we will take counsel together how best to bring them up". Ischomachus is forthcoming in his relationship, explaining to his wife why they are married, how they will make their relationship successful, and what both will do to accomplish this. In stark contrast, Euphelitus ' initially does not show the same level of attention to his wife as Ischomachus, stating "I kept a watch on her as far as possible and gave her such attention as was reasonable". He does not communicate effectively with his wife, resulting in a tumultuous relationship in which they end up sleeping in separate rooms and arguing with each other. This eventually culminates in the murder of Eratosthenes by Euphelitus after being cuckolded. In due course, Ischomachus has the more successful relationship due to superior communication and

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