My First Experience Of Losing A Loved One

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Losing a Loved One Many people lose their loved ones suddenly each day. My first experience with losing a loved one was my great-grandmother’s death in 2012. My great-grandmother’s sudden death taught me that I should appreciate the people in my life more. I do not know how long my loved ones will be around or how many chances I will get to make memories with them and learn from them. The afternoon of April sixth was just like any other Friday. My mother came home from work and told my sister Amber and I that us three were going to my great-grandmother’s house to stay the night. Amber and I were not very excited to go, just like any other kids being forced to go somewhere they do not want to. Looking back now I am glad we went to see her and

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