When I was little and up to my late teen years I always thought that the American dream was to own a big house with nice cars, a boat maybe, a dog or two, to live a happy life, make lots of money, have a couple kids and a nice chiseled piece of man candy on my arm. Seems nice right? Especially the money and man candy part. I feel like when I was younger, I sometimes based my parents love on how many nice things they would buy me for my birthday, or maybe at just random times. Silly to think that I gauged my parents love and my happiness on the material things I received as a child. It seems like these days, society and social media seem to define happiness as having either a lot of money, or a lot of really nice things. They label happiness as a GOAL instead of a FEELING. This is where so many people experience disappointment when it comes to happiness. The Declaration of Independence states that one of our unalienable rights’ is to be happy in life. Yes, it’s true, we all strive to be happy in life but do we really think about what happiness means to us in a realistic way? Society and social media has a skewed definition of happiness. We simply focus too much on the pursuit of happiness rather than focusing on the positive emotions and feelings that we experience every day. Happiness is a positive emotion we experience; it’s not something that we should label as a goal.
I guarantee almost every American has said once, “I wish I could win the lottery”. We seem to have the mind-set that if we did win the lottery, life would be ten million times better than it is now. I have to admit, I spend a couple bucks a month on scratch/lottery tickets. All the commercials and advertising make winning the lottery seem like some kind of gat...
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... the feeling of a joyful and happy heart. Ask yourself this; what has made you smile today?
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...at the American culture places economic success at the pinnacle of social desirability, without listing legitimate ways for attaining the desired goal (Merton 672-682). Today, the American Dream no longer reflects the dream Adams had, but instead, the idea that one can only call themselves truly successful if they have become rich, regardless of the way they got there. The American Dream does not guarantee happiness, but rather the pursuit of it, but with the media strongly persuading people that money guarantees happiness, people are encouraged to do whatever it takes, even it means disregarding their morals, so that they achieve ‘success.’ The inability to achieve this goal often leads people to destructive, and ultimately life-threatening criminal behavior as their feelings of anxiety and frustration over this vision of the “American Dream” get the best of them.
In The Twilight Zone’s “Number 12 Looks Just Like You” and Aldous Huxley's “Brave New World” it is apparent that happiness comes from stability and the ability to get what one wants with little effort, however, the price for this happiness is a loss of individuality and strong emotions, making ignorance truly bliss.
Finding the level of ultimate contentment and life satisfaction can be challenging, but the perception of situations or powerful social connections strengthens the level of happiness within a person. Topic Significance: In recent years, the rate of depression in young adults has increased as people struggle to find the meaning of happiness and how they can achieve happiness. As people continue throughout their life, it is important to recognize what makes them happy.
One reason described to be a cause of happiness is income. Don Peck and Ross Douthat indicate how, “National income appears to be one of the best single predictors of overall well-being, explaining perhaps 40 percent of the difference in contentment among nations” (352). With this statement, comes the explanation of how income can influence happiness in adults who strive to earn a living. Research illustrates how, “For individual countries, with few exceptions, self-reported happiness has increased as incomes have risen” (Douthat 352). While these two statements provide sufficient evidence for the reason of income bringing happiness, income itself is not relevant.
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Real happiness is more than brief positive feelings but rather a lasting state of peace or contentedness. According to Reich, a former professor of psychology at Arizona State University, happiness is “deeper than a momentary good mood” (Reich). When ordinary happiness is experienced, Jacobsen, a professor in the Department
Contrary to belief, genuine happiness is very rarely found at the bottom of a shopping basket or on the leather seats of a brand new car. Often we hear the cliché saying “Money can’t buy happiness” but this is in fact true. Whilst the elation and delight brought from finally owning a wanted item is extraordinary, you must remind yourself that your happiness should not become dependant upon your ownership of this item. Being happy is not something you can purchase from a shop or car dealership, it is the way you take on life. Unfortunately, happiness does not have its own aisle at shops and never will.
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