Essay On Why Are There No Unmarked Women

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Gender differences have always existed, since the birth of humans. Through the ages, females are usually weak in comparison to males. As Tanne said,” There Is no Unmarked Women.” It means each of the women have to make decisions about hair. clothing, make up, and accessories, and each decision carries meaning. Why are there no unmarked women? Because most females are affected by a male’s judgment even if the males do not know who she is. Therefore, I strongly agree with Tannen’s idea that there are no unmarked women, but women should have their own right to choose to be marked or not.
Tannen was born in Brooklyn, New York, and received her PhD in linguistics from the University of California at Berkeley and teaches at Georgetown university.
More and more attention from people are forcing women to care about their appearance. On the other hand, males are adopting that they are unmarked. Regularly, males do not care about their style of dressing. Some of them just do not tidy their unruly hair. In addition, I will form an opinion based on female’s dresses. For example, when I was walking around the street and shopping mall, I will unconsciously observe women who were passing by me. I had not realized this before I read this paragraph by Tannen. Even, females will pay more attention on women’s dresses. By the way, I went to the writing center before. There is a tutor told me her own experience. She thinks she is lucky that her mother did not teach her how to make up when she was young. Because of that, she does not need to wake up early in order to have enough time to do the makeup things. She feels happy and comfortable to show her real face. Therefore, there is the gender inequality about women on instinct that makes women are not able to choose to be marked or not even though women are more willing not to make up.
Tannen further states the title of women’s jobs. Especially, people will add “ess” and “ette” to mark words as “female.” “Alfre Woodard, who was an Oscar nominee for best supporting “actress” worry about eye-lashes and cellulite, and women who are actors worry about the characters we are playing” (142). It is kind of shows the situation that females are facing in their work place. People has less trust in women’s ability which hurts female’s feeling and confidence. On the other hand, Tannen further points out the

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