polyamory

Polyamory

Marriage equality for its citizens has become a hot button issue in America these days. Many people agree that marriage does not need to be between one man and one woman, but between people who are deeply in love regardless of their romantic preferences. However, should it still only be between two people? Although it is not as publically acknowledged as homosexuality, polyamory is becoming more common in today’s world. A better understanding of polyamorous relationships will make it easier to consider this subject during the forming of legislature regarding marriage equality.

Valerie White writes, "Poly people believe that the deep, mutual love that glows in a long standing relationship isn't necessarily destroyed by the energy that kindles in a new one"(White 18). Essentially, to be polyamorous means to be in consensual intimate relationships with more than one partner without deception between partners. Some people might consider this cheating or infidelity, but in polyamorous relationships, provided there is honesty, it is considered normal acceptable behavior. There is no “standard” polyamorous relationship, so each group is encouraged to communicate honestly and set boundaries amongst themselves that work for their group. This is in an effort to give each partner in the relationship the opportunity to be as fulfilled as possible, and not in a strictly sexual manner. In a Nightline interview a woman summed up her polyamorous relationship saying “I’m looking for what helps me be the best human I could possibly be” (Boudrea). One of the most interesting things about polyamorous relationships is that they can include just about anyone. Heterosexual, homosexual, young, old, people who enjoy a lot of sex,...

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...y day. As a country, it is important to be informed about the reality of these relationships before making any type of legislature that may affect the persons involved. America is continuing to become more open-minded, and to set the tone for how many other countries handle human rights issues. If this nation can understand and accept the choices being made by its citizens regarding their relationships, it could set a precedent that would lead to a less oppressive world for all.

Works Cited

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Boudrea, Abbie. “Modern Sex in America.” Nightline (ABC) (2013): 1. Regional Business News. Web. 23 Apr 2014.

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