Why You Should Work On Improving Your Confidence Steven Spielberg

Confidence is the strongest aphrodisiac I know. It's strong, alluring fragrance glides into the room long before you enter and lingers long after you leave. It makes me stop drinking my martini mid-sip. It distracts my gaze mid-sentence in your direction. I notice you before you ever open your mouth or walk toward me. Your presence is known and you have my attention.
Confidence is a way of being in the world that demonstrates assuredness and comfort in the skin you're in. Do not confuse this with egoism, which is a way that many falsely convey the self-esteem that they lack. Those who are acting from an egotistical place will exaggerate their importance, call attention to their accomplishments and find the need to seek praise because they're not really sure of who and what they are. Do you think that Nolan Ryan had to tell people what a great pitcher he was? Do you think Steven Spielberg has to remind people

I almost want to say "Duh!", but in case it's not so obvious why, it's because you can work from the outside in and it will only get you so far. What you say, how you dress and your body language are all extensions of how you feel on the inside about who you are. Trust me, we're damn good at pointing out how you can improve upon these aspects of yourself and you will get more attention if you follow our suggestions. However, no designer jeans or impressive bank account balance will keep her around if you're bankrupt in the confidence department.
One of the best things about boosting your confidence is that it is the antidote to some of your enemies like intimidation, disrespect and anxiety. These are the buzz killers of the party, bringing you down to a puddle of self-esteem-less jell-o. Hardly sexy and not even remotely appealing; these will kill your game every time. Luckily, they can't be in the same presence as confidence, so developing this characteristic is your ace in the hole.
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