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It all truly began during the school year of 2013-2014. I knew something was different about me. I wasn’t like the other girls. I was always so envious of boys, because they got to play with trucks and transformers and I was stuck with barbies and littlest pet shops. So, I just brushed it off and figured I was a tomboy, I just kept it to myself because I was always a girl. I only ever had sisters. I never had a male influence because my dad worked a lot. I lived this way for a couple years, assuming it was a tomboy phase I was going through. But the feeling that I was different just didn’t go away. Until in 8th grade when I discovered the word ‘transgender’. I found some people that are around my age that were transgender. At first, I was just …show more content…

I started asking people who are transgender how they figured it out and I really related to how they say they felt before they came out. Eventually, I decided that I really am transgender. Now comes the hard part. Coming out to my family. I waited until I had a gut feeling that it was time to do it. I remember it vividly. I decided to text my family in a group text message. I walked to the nearest park and sat down at a bench so no one could read over my shoulder. I started writing up the message, I remember that it was very long and it included definitions of transgender, paragraphs of my feelings, it really was everything I had been holding in for so long into a couple of paragraphs. I was so nervous that I was shaking with the amount of adrenaline pumping through my body. I was shaking so much that I accidently hit the ‘send’ button before I was ready. I started crying because I couldn’t hold it in any longer. After they all had read the text, I started walking home I ran to the bathroom and locked the door and washed myself up. After I left the bathroom I ran into my room and laid on my bed. I couldn’t help but cry, yet feel relieved. Then I fell asleep. About an hour later I was woken up by my

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