The Relationship Between Parents and Their Children in Silas Marner by George Eliot "A child more than all other gifts
That Earth can offer to a declining man
Brings hope with it and forward looking thoughts." William Wordsworth
The novel Silas Marner was written by George Eliot in 1863. George
Eliot's real name was Mary Ann Evans and she was farced to change it
because of the role of women at that time. If the book were published
under a female name it would be ridiculed and would not sell. This is
perhaps one of the reasons she is so critical of society.
George Eliot used William Wordsworth's quote on the title page of her
novel. Throughout the story of Silas Marner, she explores the nature
of the relationship between parents and children through many of the
characters, for example Silas and Eppie, or Godfrey and his father,
the Squire.
When Silas is banished from Lantern Yard for a deed committed by his
closest friend, he keeps himself at a distance from the villagers of
Raveloe, where he now lives almost like a hermit. He saves every penny
from his weaving and builds up a fine stack of coins, which he admires
and loves more than anything else. One day, he finds it gone, having
been stolen by Godfrey Cass's villainous brother, Dunstan. Meanwhile,
in the Red House, the house of the Squire of the village, Godfrey and
his brother have an argument about money. Dunstan Cass knows of
Godfrey's secret wife and child, and is blackma...
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controlling his life and his priorities change to looking after "his
new treasure", Eppie. Another place where the quote is shown is the
feelings towards Eppie from Godfrey. Although he does not take her, I
feel that if she had agreed to live with him then his life would have
been transformed like Silas'. Had Eppie gone to live at the Red House,
Nancy would not have been so miserable at loosing a child and being
unable to give birth after that. They would have had Eppie and they
would have benefited from her company as much as Silas would have.
However, there are exceptions to this. Molly Farran, after having
Eppie, continues to take the opium and declines until her death. Also,
the Squire's children did not bring him any joy although we are not
clear as to whether he was a declining man when they born.
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Paris, Bernard J. Experiments in Life: George Eliot's Quest for Values. Detroit: Wayne State University Press, 1965.
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This is made very noticeable to us and quite clear to us in Act one