Power Of Language Essay

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The Power of Language

Most people think that power is yelling, forcing people to do things , being harsh, or causing fear; but to me the power is knowing how to use language and when. It’s knowing the right time to show love, or fear. If all the leaders knew how to use the power of language to lead the people we wouldn’t have so many revolutions throughout history. Language is all we need to communicate with people. it can be the most powerful weapon, it can bring war or peace. It can break or build a country, it can make you the strongest leader ever born or a nobody neglected by the rest. Language is the most powerful tool created, and it 's fascinating how everyone of us uses it to their advantage. We can manipulate people so easily …show more content…

Women usually try to manipulate their significant other to do what they want, taking in consideration that men are physically stronger or they are stubborn. So woken tent to find other ways to get them to do what they want, so instead of a woman telling her boyfriend ‘STOP TALKING TO THIS GIRL” , she would say “ I love you so much, and you are an important aspect in my life and I know you love me too, but this girl acts like like she wants you, would you please minimize your conversations with her” She would use “ I love you as an introduction to appeal closer to him and show that she cared about him more than the girl, she would also say “ And you love me too” to show him that she trusted him and she understand that he will never cheat on her to talk to another women, if the guy is a cheater he will end up feeling bad or rethinking the situation because his girlfriend trusts him and if he isn 't a cheater he will look at the situation as if maybe the girl is actually trying to hit on him so he will try to stop talking to her. Also the girlfriend said “ would you please minimize talking to her” because she gives him a choice , if she would of said stop talking to her, he might feel as if she is controlling his actions and …show more content…

So many people think using I puts them in authority but i believe that sometimes being in authority makes the other person not wanting to listen to you because they know u already have the power to control them, they know that no matter what they say you will still feel like you are in a place of authority. One day my friend said to her sister “ Go get me a water bottle” so her sister respond by saying “ no go get it it yourself”. But i believe if she used a different way of saying it, instead of using “Me” which means you personalize needing the water bottle, she could 've said “ can you please get the water bottle” then the girl won’t feel like she is working for her sister, which will most likely get the respond of her gettin it .Usually siblings get the feeling that they are used by the older siblings because if the way they receive their orders. That 's why they don 't. want to help most of the time, because they feel neglected and taking advantage of but if the wording of the sentse change their older sibling will get a different response. Younger sister’s get angry when an older brother tells them what to do, In my family my sister gets so mad when i tell her what to do for example my dad can say “ go clean the kitchen” and she will respond by “ Yes” but if i tell her “ Go clean the kitchen” she will say “ Why you acting like i 'm your slave” because she doesn’t expect me to

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