Polygyny And Polygamy

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Chapter 1

Introduction

1.1 Researh Background.
In Islam, marriage is one of the methods to form a family and also to produce our own descendants. Besides that, marriage is also a law of nature that can not be altered or wedding sidelines at every generation and age. Lies within every human being, there is a feeling to share feelings and passion, or so to the opposite gender. Thus, Islam requires people to get married to meet their individual needs. Islam does not see that marriage is only to consolidate between men and women or satisfying human desires but far more than that.

Based on Abdul Wahid Baharon (1992), marriage can be categorized into four types according to cultural knowledge and the first is monogamy (monogama and monoandri). It is a marriage between a man and a woman only. This means that a husband has only one wife, and a wife with a husband only, not more than that. Secondly is polygyny where a man marries two women or more at a time. Next is polyandry. Polyandry somehow contrary with polygyny which is a women can marry more than two men at a time (Azwaj, 2001). Polygyny and polyandry also more easily understood by the term of polygamy. Last but not least is group marriage. This group marriage involving a group of men who marry a group of women in the same time. But in Islam, polygamy in a form of polygyny is permitted whereas polyandry is banned to be practiced by any Muslim.

Generally speaking, the word polygamy itself is derived from many definitions. One of it is from the Greek words which known as "Ploy" or "Polus" that means many and secondly the word 'Gamein "or" Gamos " meaning of marriage (Abdul Wahid Baharon. 1992). In a more concise definition is that the individual has more than one ...

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... studied should be determined first in order to gather all the infomations needed in the research. This study will be carried out based on Malay community in Kedah that may known involved in polygamy directly or not. I will be focusing on people around 25 to 60 years old in order to get the information about polygamy and the age will be categorized accordingly. In order to get the definite information, approximately 120 respondents will be selected to participate in this research survey.

This research will focusing on the 12 districts in Kedah (from North to South), namely Langkawi, Kubang Pasu, Padang Terap, Pokok Sena, Kota Setar, Pendang, Yan, Kuala Muda, Sik, Baling, Kulim and Bandar Baharu. Throughout all this area, the information needed in this research can be obtained thoroughly.

1.7 Chapter Organization.
Troughout this research, there will be five chapter

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