Science, childhood I use to write a personal daily diary. In this personal weakness portal, I wrote small personal changes, habits, and life style. When I started understanding different views about life, then I realized this writing is nothing but personal notes, which I wrote as a memory of daily activities, later it become my guidelines to judge myself as a person.
In reality, while we grow as a person in childhood or in early adulthood, we do not have much sensitivity to criticism, but later in life we realize that we as a human being get disturbed for criticism. As a part of our thinking process, we think more as compared to act. Hence, taking things to heart and getting too disappointed when things are done in the wrong way. This weakness is found in a person with sensitivity. Such person has extreme fear of getting rejected. Here I want to elaborate my personal example of …show more content…
So, I have decided to work on those weaknesses in order to not make me matter too much in my life. If I don’t they will produce negative consequences and may even disrupt my efforts while I use my personal strengths.
If we learn the benefits of not taking things personally, then reacting to criticism or thoughts decreases. I started looking at myself as a person the most focusing on dictating only to me, to put me on the right track for success and avoiding nonproductive activities from my daily life. The first step in breaking the habit of taking things personally is to observe the stories I tell myself. Gradually, these stories made me stronger and stronger and it reduced the time on thinking on other issues (Jaeger, 2004).
Always remember that people are busy in this world. They may not have time for you. Initially this thought made me nervous and lonely feeling, but gradually I started accepting this as a fact which made me easy on dealing with