Personal Narrative: The Illusion Of Control

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“Hey honey, I’m sorry Tae and I are going to be an hour late, can you keep everything warm for us?” Trevor said to me. I prepared an extravagant evening. I cooked filet mignon, set the dining table, but the one thing I did not plan for made it come crashing down. However, I made the best of the night, even after the mishap. Humans believe they possess the ability to make error free decisions and judgements about the world around them. However, our judgements tend to contain illogical and biased feelings. One of the biggest biases we seem to have is we possess the power to control everyday situations, even if these events play out only according to probability. This is a cognitive bias called the illusion of control, and it is something we all …show more content…

I have noticed that my own illusion has kept me more optimistic towards bad situations. Therefore, if I believe I am in control of a certain situation, and it plays out how I want, it is a large boost in confidence. However, if the event does not play out in my favor I am still not extremely upset with the results. This is confirmed by Thomas Langen suggesting, “A study done by psychologists Alloy and Clements revealed that individuals with a high illusion of control have a sort of buffer against the emotional consequences of failed experiences. The participants worked on a series of block design problems that were unsolvable. The participants with high illusion of control had lower negative moods compared to those with low illusion of control. The study also found that these same findings could be applied to life. Individuals with high illusion of control were less discouraged and more motivated despite negative life events, even difficult long-term events were more likely to be pursued. Contrary, participants with low illusory distortions were likely to have more negative moods, and outlook on life …show more content…

However, as stated before, too much illusory tendencies are not going to affect everyone. The chances, or probability, appears to be very low for a normal person. I am a normal person. I like to be in control of my life and what happens, even if it is just an illusion. That combine with the added benefits of having that emotional buffer to look more positively at life is better than worrying if it is too much. For instance, if my sense of illusion wasn’t high enough, the special dinner I planned for Tae and Trevor would have felt devastating. I wouldn’t have been able to move past the flaws, and think of the positives to continue having a nice night. Possessing more self-efficacy and motivation towards life events, both positive and negatives, outweighs any bad consequence, which might or might not occur. Overall, an average person’s judgements and decisions are rarely error free, logical, and unbiased. Just like the illusion of control isn’t very error free, logical, and unbiased. There is no way to plan for all the spontaneous events that life likely throws at you. Whether it is planning a nice dinner, a wild party, or a family vacation; there is always a chance for it to end in disaster. A certain demographic acquires the adaptive capacity to recognize this and move forward, while others cannot. Are you one of the many to realize and move past, or does the illusion control

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