Parenting In Pride And Prejudice By Jane Austen

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Parenting is one of the hardest jobs on the planet. It takes a very special person to be able to handle one child, let alone five daughters, although girls are the easier sex to handle when it comes to child rearing. The Bennett’s would most certainly disagree with the previous statement, having two daughters of great virtue and three daughters who are the spawn of the seven deadly sins. In her novel Pride and Prejudice, Jane Austen exemplifies proper parenting through the ignorance of the Bennett parents. She grants advice to stand by while participating in parenting practices to instill in one’s children a sense of decorum both within the home and out of the home, to never have a favorite child as it can damage the others, and finally, …show more content…

If one were to function poorly in any society, society would be sure to put an end to the terrible behavior that the parents failed to correct, via prison or a psych ward. This is a field in which the Bennett’s struggled. While Jane and Elizabeth have a kosher attitude in all public affairs, their sisters, on the other hand, are very poor with their behavior. While Mary meant well in trying to entertain guests with her piano playing at a party that was not her own, it was an unfortunate snub to the hosts of the party, as they had not asked her to perform. That however, was a mere slight compared to the atrocities that Lydia and Kitty incited at this same event, running amuck with the officers. To Elizabeth, she felt as though “her family made an agreement to expose themselves as much as they could during the evening” (Austen 70). Had Elizabeth’s sisters been taught to behave properly in public, this whole fiasco would have been avoided and the drama that would have occurred later in the novel would have never been. The blame is not entirely the girls’ fault, as it was in fact the parents who did not set the precedent of proper behavior during an outing. Mr. Bennett providing an ok example, flitting from fellow to fellow chatting away, but it was his wife who embedded in their daughters to be tiresome, as it was after all she who rambled on and on about such a match for her Jane and how such a match would for “her younger daughters […] throw them in the way of other rich men” (Austen 68).Being a loud talker and insensitive about who hears ones conversation, Mrs. Bennett should bear the fault entirely of her daughters’ folly, for it was she who provided the poor example, and how could one learn to act accordingly if one’s own mother does not behave prudently for public affairs. Yet Mrs. Bennett is not the only one to blame. According to Diana Frances, Mr. Bennett, “keeps himself aloof, (using his wife’s idiocrasy) as fodder

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