Nonverbal Communication And Body Language

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The nonverbal communication and our body language play an important role in our social interactions. Gestures and facial expressions can be sometimes even more important than our words and they definitely influence the way other people perceive us. Handshake, eye contact or the specific poses we tend to use tell a lot about how we feel at the moment and also express our attitude towards the other person. In fact, the nonverbal communication can reveal much more than what we actually say. Sometimes we control the body language and we are aware of the message we want to share by our gestures or mimic, but there are situations when our body language operates on the unconscious level as well. It can support the verbal language; however, in many cases it does not match our speech, but creates a contradiction as it goes again it. The interesting and important situation where body language plays a significant role is the first impression: a short time period when we are forming the impression of others by analyzing their physical appearance as well as their behavior. Several studies have proven the importance of first impression as we tend to hold on to that first picture we created about someone, even though he or she might behave completely differently in other interactions. Job interview, oral exam, admission process… those are some of the situation where the first impression can be the ultimate key to success and where the nonverbal communication is often even more evaluated than the verbal one. My aim is to describe the role of body language and its relation to the first impression in social interactions and also discuss if it is possible to learn a specific gestures or facial expressions so they would work in our favor when we need... ... middle of paper ... ...ther recommendation for body language is to avoid chopping gestures and pointing as they can be perceived as aggressive motions. If people shove their hands in pockets, behind their back or even cross them in front of their chest, they risk appearing closed off, stiff or belligerent. Of course, this is how most people wish to appear during the important encounters and all those motions are recommended by experts to be avoided. Further mistakes we often make are the grooming gestures which signalize nervousness. For instance playing with hair, fingernails or our jewelry, all these small movements can reveal how confidant we are at the moment and they also can distract the other person from signs which might have a positive effect when building our first impression. Also the facial expression can contribute to the positive, but also damaging impression. For example

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