Dear Paige, I think I might have been guilty on occasion, well frequently and each time I was carrying this emotional pain forward I would sometimes feel there was something wrong with our relationship when it was actually fine. With disagreements it’s about becoming realistic by disagreeing without the need to know who’s actually right. It’s about relaxing a little, which is a much healthier approach, don’t you agree? It’s hard to think there is something wrong with our relationship just because we argue once in a while. It’s wrong to think we have a less committed love just because we don’t always agree. I don’t think arguing is a sign of relationship breakdown. I think it can help the quality and longevity of our relationship in multiple ways. Fighting could be a much needed release of tension and can …show more content…
I get this feeling when I see you or hear you. My heart skips a beat when I’m around you. I like the way you move, the way you smell around me, it’s always enough to make my day. These intense feelings I fear will never go away, I started thanking the universe for letting you into my life because what I feel for you exist in my heart. You are so beautiful and I can’t help but fall for you more and more every day. I like to think of the first time we met, the first time I saw you (snapchat lol) I told you the truth of what I thought and I’ve wanted you since then. The first time we hugged (lunch Line) the first time we kissed (you wanna fight?). I think about the time before you were a part of my life… then you came along and changed everything, it seems just like yesterday I replay these memories and long to make more with you. Knowing that you are in the world excites and makes my body tingle all over. I get butterflies in my stomach! What I’m trying to say is I’m afraid of losing you more than anything, and it kills me to know that you might not feel the same way, I’m only asking for another chance… I won’t mess up again. Please reconsider after
Do you remember the first time we met? I do as I cannot shake the memory. It was love at first sight. I’ll never forget the feeling I had. A warmth overcame my body as you stoked a fire in my heart. It was like I had spent my life drowning in the sea around me and you were that breath of fresh air as I pulled myself out. My cares and concerns melted away. I was complete. You were exactly what I had been missing in my life. My better half you completed me you made me whole. Your touch, your scent, your glistening radiance I took it all in. I felt its force enter my body working its way to the very center of my soul. It felt like a real living breathing thing coalescing within my life force touching parts of me I never knew existed. You awakened some innate primal desire and I needed you at all times.
When couples become romantically involved with one another, obviously, they cannot be expected to agree on everything at all times. Conflict becomes a normal part of every relationship. Some say it is harmful because it can lead to hatred. Some say it is beneficial for the relationship because it is a learning lesson on how to deal a problem in a healthy way. I say it can be both good and bad depending on how people manage it. If a conflict is not handled appropriately, it can really damage the relationship which can also affect the people around us. When conflict is managed in a positive way, it gives us many opportunities learn more about ourselves, as well as our partners. It can also help us grow maturely which can strengthen our relationship.
I felt invincible, free, and loved as long as you had my hand grasped in mine. Not only did you make me feel safe and loved, yet you also made me feel intelligent and brave. I will never forget the numerous times you drove 3 hours to our house so you could help me with my studies for all those difficult math tests. One of those times, particularly stands out to me. It was two days before my first statistics final and I called you on the phone to see if you could study with me over some statistics material I was struggling with.
You can detect annoyances in everyday activities and these annoyances should be considered as signpost for discussion to prevent future problems. In some cases, the relationship should not be pursued or continued if the problems or signpost are not addressed. Point and case, beautiful moments or special occasions that should be cherished and held as momentums are disregarded. You could be making love, and your mate sighs and complains that you’re too heavy or is does feel good, or things are uncomfortable. What they are basically saying is that they are not enjoying you and/or they do not want to be there having sex with you. If you’re walking along a tropical beach shore and your mate says, this sand is too hot. What they are really saying is that their focus is on the sand, not being with you. If the two of you are swimming in the cool waters off a Hawaiian island, and you mate says… this water is too cold. They are not mentally connected to you or enjoying you and the beauty of the moment. They are complaining when they should be enjoying the connection and being together. Those are all situational responses that signify that you are not connected mentally. That’s not to say that you’re not connected physically. However, physical
Every day that I wake up and every night before I fall asleep, I thank God that we met, because without you I would be nothing. Through the hard times you have held my hand, through the rough times you have held me close to you, and through the ups and downs you have stayed by my side. What else could I ask for? When I am sick you tuck me in. You have brought back the person that everyone loved and have helped me learn to be the person I always wanted and knew I could be.
The day you were born I felt this indescribable love. One I had never known before. From the beginning of your life I never knew I could have a love that was so strong. When you were an infant I told people how great you were and they said, "Yeah, but wait until she is two." When you were two I told people how great you were and they said, "Yeah, but wait until she is ten." When you were ten I told people how great you were and they said, "Yeah, but just wait until she is 16." And now you are 16 and I am telling people how great you are.
Poor communication between the partners is what kills relationships. Sticking to our assumptions, we form an opinion believing that what we have are the facts. In reality, however, we usually form our beliefs without having all the information. Reluctance to expose your deepest thoughts and feelings to your partner, failing to ask questions or listen to your partner creates assumptions and false beliefs that lead to unrealistic expectations, poor decision-making, and inevitably, disappointment.
It is important to know with whom you are arguing. If you are in a relationship
I love you and only you and want you and only you. I could never have imagined or wished for such a blessing. When it comes to you and me being together and how lucky we are to be in love, I smile and my heart skips a beat.
You are allowed to feel bad and have miserable days. You are allowed to be moody. You are allowed to want more out of the relationship. But, you have to learn how to communicate in a way that doesn 't offend your partner. Moreover, you have to learn to communicate things to your partner instead of bottling them up and keeping your partner in the dark.
Though most couples do not enjoy disagreements, when done properly, resolving these disagreements can improve a relationship. In marriage, it is inevitable that there will be disputes, but different couples have different outcomes based on how they resolve their differences. There are many
Seven years have passed since our first encounter and in those past seven years, we have made many memories and parted ways several times. Whenever we parted ways, we were led back to each other as if there was a spark between us. Ever since you entered my life I felt as if God somehow sent one of his angels down to me. Over the last few months, I feel like my heart has grown stronger because of the love I have for you. This love gets stronger and stronger each and every day.
I will like to remind you and the beautiful relationship we had as the most wonderful dream that happens once every thousand night, that particular dream that everyone wishes to have everyday in order to maintain the spark and hope. I would remind us for a lifetime as something that happened and not forgotten.
Intimate relationships are a lot of times used for one’s personal needs. Relationships are being created with significant others for many different reason. I have never experienced being in a relationship for the wrong reasons, so I cannot talk much about this. However I can tell you a common issue I personally notice in today’s relationship struggling is the partners don’t talk about their feelings with one another. “Difficulty articulating what you feel; many adults don’t know to express what they feel. Instead, you communicate what you think” (Sachs, 2005). I believe this statement has a lot of truth to it because a lot of couples will not talk things out hoping that they will reside, when in reality that doesn’t happen. Tony and I could definitely work on this factor in our relationship, I have a hard time opening up and telling him my feelings about stuff that may be going on. Tony is really good about telling me how he feels at any time. I struggle with this because I push it off not hoping it will reside but because I feel like it is something I will get over and move on with. This is something we both are willing to work on and it will take time to accomplish
This relationship has had many ups and downs that we have had to overcome in our relationship. Sometimes these conflicts were due to our