Kantian Morality: Dissecting the Deferential Husband

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Kantian Morality and the “Deferential Husband”
Imagine the following scenario: A man does everything his wife wants and only considers her preferences, often disregarding his own in the process. He is a “deferential husband” and frequently inconveniences himself to fulfill his wife’s desires. Seemingly noble, the man’s behavior poses an interesting question. Is he behaving according to the Kantian model of morality by treating his wife so well? In this paper, I will argue that the husband does not live by the principles of Kantian morality in the sense that he does not treat all rational beings equally as “ends-in-themselves”. Although he treats his wife as an end, he treats himself and potentially others as a means for her. Therefore, he creates …show more content…

He posit that in order for one to fulfill the categorical imperative, one would have to treat all rational beings as “ends-in-themselves”, or the purposes for all actions. That necessitates that one cannot treat themselves or others as “means” for some other purpose. If they did, they would contradict the maxim of treating everyone as “ends”, which obviously bears more pleasant consequences for society and is a much more desired rule than the possible maxim of treating everyone as “means”. In the case of the deferential husband, the categorical imperative is violated because the husband views himself as a means and his wife as an end; the proper application of Kantian morality mandates that he view both his wife and himself as ends. It is exceedingly evident that he perceives himself to be a means for his wife - he causes himself hardship as he buys her roses, leaves his job to take care of her, cooks her favorite dishes, cancels his plans for her, and fulfills her desires in general, despite having completely different preferences from those of …show more content…

The original argument emphasizes the husband’s perception of himself as a means, which opposes Kant’s view of morality as the treatment of all rational beings as ends. In order for the husband to behave morally, he must treat both himself and his wife as ends. By considering himself as a means for his wife, he breeds contradiction between treating his wife as an end from a moral sense of duty and making an exception for himself. The former suggests that he recognizes the importance of universal morality and viewing all people as ends, but the latter suggests that he applies a different standard to

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