Lay counseling and Clinical counseling have some similarities and some differences.
Clinical counselors (clinical psychologist, psychiatrist, social workers, etc…) are regulated by a many government associations and boards. On the other hand, the lay or pastoral counselors (pastors, chaplains, lay ministers, etc…) are governed by the ecclesiastical structures. They may or may not be influenced by a professional organization.
From the course readings, and outside readings, I have learned that one of the most notable differences between the lay counseling and Christian counseling models relate mostly with the counseling process.
Mark McMinn purposely writes this twofold book to first, address the pragmatic assimilation of psychology, theology, and spirituality. Secondly, he explores the spirituality of a Christian counselor, and how this aspect of character affects the methods he or she may use to represent Jesus Christ when dealing with clients. Altogether, this book discusses the dual need for Biblical Counselors to multitask with clients while pursuing personal development in spirituality to advance a Christian worldview. The objective is to “help Christian counselors and researchers unite around certain key questions and perspectives so that our interventions become increasingly relevant and effective" (p. 6).
Biblical counseling is the sharing of information found in the Word of God with the goal of improving the life of another person. The Bible contains excellent material for counseling. Knowledge of scripture is essential for the person of God who wishes to help others achieve a better life. Biblical counseling is the application of the principles of relationships found in the Bible and is often given to other Christians experiencing difficult circumstance.
Dr. Tan has shown that incorporating prayer, scripture, and a Christian approach helps people. He has been using this approach for years and has had positive results. All counselors need to use the methods that work. This is especially true of Christian counselors. If a Christian had made a chose to visit a Christian therapist, that therapist should use Christian tools to help their client.
When clients come in for help, especially children or underaged teens, you must know that the bible is not about disciplining them, it 's about the mighty acts of God (Lucas 18). Many christians believe that the bible is God 's actual words (Lucas 17) , but professional social work has rejected the notion of sin or more of the use of that word (Lucas
Clinton, T. & Ohlschlager, G. (2002). Competent Christian counseling: Foundations and practice of compassionate soul care. Colorado Springs, CO: WaterBrook Press.
Worthington, E. L. Jr., Hook, J. N., Davis, D. E., & McDaniel, M. A. (2011). Religion and spirituality. In J. C. Norcross (Ed.), Psychotherapy relationships that work (2nd ed.). New York: Oxford University Press
However, it does not matter how strong a person’s faith is or how weak a person faith is, everyone in Christian counseling starts off the same. It is a process how a person develops overtime. This is similar to a child learning how to tie his or her shoes. At first they do not get it but overtime, it becomes of habit and the person get better. According to Clinton, Hart and Ohlschlager (2005),” they believe that Christian counselling has to do with and learning applying the principles of the kingdom on living to the chronically sins, fears, failures, and dark areas of our life (p.21). When people are at their lowest point he or she turn to Christ to get the throughout tough times. Furthermore, in chapter two a person learns about the trust and fined our truth. In chapter two it discusses becoming a trust worthy counselor. In Chapter two, I realized that is all about gaining the clients trust. If the client, does not trust the counselor then no typ of relationship can be bonded. The client is in a venerable state and the counselor has to make sure that the can feel free to be
In "Caring for people God's way", chapter four focuses on the mechanical methods of counseling such as, the tools and systems to create an effective session. A few traits to consider is being spiritually anchored (dependent on scripture), spiritually-forming (Christian maturity), and so on. As a whole the majority of these traits prove to be beneficial rather than detrimental in any sort of way towards the client. Through this model one can look at the functionality of how the actual counseling process works, and how it effectively works primarily due to the participation of the clients. There are several components that presents challenges for someone who is a Christian helper through navigating through the 10 session counseling formula.
Acts 20:35 states, “By this kind of hard work we must help the weak, remembering the words of the Lord Jesus, he himself said, ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.’” Pastoral, or Christian, Counseling is a form of giving. It is the giving up of one’s time, compassion, and wisdom to benefit the individual, or individuals, sitting in front of them who have brought their trust upfront, believing they can strengthen their quality of life and more than that, their walk of faith, through professional guidance. By pursuing this career, a follower is ultimately taking his heavenly father’s values to heart and acting upon them. A better understanding of what that looks like, in this sense, can be found by examining the traits that are important