Jamaica Kincaid's Girl: A Short Story

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Being a mom is one of the most precious gifts that life could give. Although the road to becoming a mom was a rocky one for me, my trials and tribulations only made me stronger. In comparison to the daughter in Jamaica Kincaid’s short story “Girl,” sometimes tough love is necessary to ensure a person’s success.
The knowledge of being pregnant was a hard pill to swallow. Depression had finally sank in as I began to think my life was over. To add insult to injury, not only was I pregnant, but I also kept it a secret. The only person that new my big secret was my cousin. When I took my first pregnancy test she was even in the bathroom with me. As we sat in the bathroom waiting on the results I didn’t know what to think. We quietly tried to bargain to God for my pregnancy test to come back negative. After realizing my test results were positive we sat in shock. I could see the fear in her eyes like flames in a fire. With her being older than me, I begged her to take me to the doctor’s office to take an official pregnancy test. As the days passed and nights grew, my cousin …show more content…

I gazed into his bluish-green eyes while crying tears of joy. I could not believe that something so beautiful had grown inside of me. With a new found independence, I finally found happiness. In school my grades improved, my attitude was positive, and I figured out that my career choice was going to be to pursue a doctorate in pharmacy. My son has inspired me to excel in everything that I do. With him now being 3 years old, I have accomplished more with him than I would have without him. I have learned that sometimes we face obstacles in life that seem too much to bear. In comparison to Kincaid’s short story the tough love from my mom molded me to be the woman that I am today. Some might say that the mother in Kincaid’s story was too assertive, but I feel that the mother was only trying to give her daughter the tools in life that she

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