Is Fat The New F Thing Summary

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Christa Kurkjian explains in her paper, Is “Fat” the New “F” Word?, that Carver transforms the social norm of being fat—and ugly—to something of a “saving grace” (Kurkjian 3). However, I have to disagree with Kurkjian on her thesis. I truly do not feel Carver’s intent for Fat is to transform the word “fat,” but to elaborate on how people perceive fat. In the beginning of her paper, Kurkjian states that being fat is being unattractive and that Carver intends to portray that as the fat man is ridiculed in the restaurant. This is something I agree with. When Carver mentions the rude comments of Rudy and even the narrator’s description of him to Rita, the audience learns that fat is being perceived as a bad characteristic. This can refer …show more content…

However, with this transition, some questions come up: What is the difference between being ridiculed and being pitied for? Is it really that much better to be pitied for? Answers to these questions would have made the transformation process of the term “fat” clearer. Though there is no doubt that Carver is making a statement here with the waitress’s pity, it is more than just pity for the fat man and more than just the presence of “the grotesque” (Kurkjian 2). It is seeing the fat man beyond his fat, someone who is mannerly and also shameful of his weight. When the waitress interacts with him, he thanks her for the food, forgives her for spilling his water, and frequently says that “they” (himself) do not eat so much all the time (Carver 67). The waitress realizes the kind-hearted and self-critical man he truly is and stands up for him when her fellow employees mock him. Carver does not change the term “fat.” In reality, he emphasizes the perception of what is beyond being fat, that there is more under the surface of what he or she looks like. Here, Carver is, in fact, using the Freudian idea of superego, which “concentrates on the mind of morals and ethics” (Abrams …show more content…

However, is that really what Carver intended? Kurkjian uses the quote by the narrator: “When he gets on me, I suddenly feel I am fat. I feel I am terrifically fat, so fat that Rudy is a tiny thing and hardly there at all” (Carver 69). However, after this quote, the narrator says, “I feel depressed” (Carver 69). The narrator truly feels fat and is ashamed of her appearance. She is not liberated from Rudy at all, but rather saddened that she is, in fact, overweight (just like how the fat man felt about

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