How Does Baba Affect Amir's Life

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Thinking Baba was dead, Amir already started to worry about his future and how he was going to make it in life by himself. All of Amir’s life he had someone to always count on, he could count on Hassan to fight most of his battle for him and Baba to provide him with food, shelter, and an education. But when it could have possibly been time for Amir to leave the nest he realized how unprepared he was for the world. He also realized that who he was “had been defined by Baba”(Hosseini 174), his whole image was because of his father and not him. Once Baba did really die, Amir was “terrified” of the thought of finding his own way in life because “Baba couldn’t...show the way anymore”(Hosseini 174). In addition, Amir relied on others to get him

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