Holden Caulfield Love

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In the novel “The Catcher in the Rye” by J.D. Salinger, Holden Caulfield, the protagonist, deals with growing up in a bitter and superficial society. Holden is very sensitive and regularly criticizes others. His depression and lack of communication skills make everyday encounters challenging. Holden’s intolerable behavior leads him to a nervous breakdown and a deep loneliness inside. During these hard times Holden fails to find a friend or someone to love. Through the insecure character of Holden Caulfield, the author conveys his struggle to connect effectively with others in search of love as his unhappiness leads him to constantly judge society’s hypocrisy.

Holden’s inability to communicate with others and relate to people who may …show more content…

The ability to love someone and commit to a relationship originates from happiness within. If one is confident with oneself, it makes it easier to love someone else. All through the novel, Holden Caulfield has great difficulty accepting himself as a result of his insecurity. Holden requires self-esteem and maturity to come to the realization that the world he lives in, unfortunately, has many flaws. Part of growing up is developing the capabilities to find oneself in this world and being ready to overcome the many challenges the average teenager faces. Considering the fact that Holden is dealing with depression, his view of the world is distorted and he is unable to love himself, never mind others as well. The reader can witnesses Holden’s lack of confidence and happiness when he repeatedly says he is going to go down and say hello to Jane Gallagher. Yet he excuses himself when he says, “[He is] not in the mood right now” (37). This remark reveals that Holden does not have enough confidence to greet Jane. He wants to connect with Jane but is too insecure to risk rejection or disappointment. Holden’s unhappiness and depression creates many troubles when searching for love. The significance of the title of the novel portrays his confusion of where he fits in this world. Holden’s vision to be “The Catcher in the Rye” portrays numbers of children …show more content…

Holden has experienced traumatic experiences in his short lifetime, which have affected his capability to trust and care for others. Holden is still suffering from the devastating loss of his brother and therefore is reluctant to love others again. Holden is scared and traumatized from the death of a very close and special person to him. Despite the fact that he attempts to connect and love his family, he cannot tolerate the pain of disappointing his mother. Throughout his many encounters, Holden has difficulty trusting people and deciding if they are sincere. Holden is cynical due to the disturbing effects of the sudden death of his brother. Holden confesses, “It sounds terrible to say it, but [he] can even get to hate somebody, just looking at them” (120). This statement reveals how he immediately perceives most adults as “phony” and cannot trust them to be genuine. Holden’s recent losses and failures have affected his abilities and desire to gain love in his

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