Support Group Reflection Paper

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Participants At the group meeting, 11 foster care youth attended; between the ages of 14-19. One participant brought her 10 month old baby. The race of the group was mixed; however, it was more predominately African-American. As well, there were more males in attendance than females. My Role: Observer I decided to participate in this support group by being an observer. I wanted to solely observe as I did not wanted to sway or influence any of the youth’s opinions, or make them hesitant to participate honestly because of my presence. Also, I wanted to take this opportunity as a chance to learn from the facilitator since I was hoping to gain information about how to discuss with my own clients their feelings and pressures regarding substance It was amazing to see how such a young group of individuals have gone through so much; but were so aware of the pressures and adversity that they were faced with and eager to be proactive about learning to cope with those issues. The support group was enlightening, the facilitator was empathetic yet confronting when needed. I walked into the group with the false notion that perhaps this group would not get far in regards to honest, open discussion in regards to social pressures and how to handle them. By having experience working with this demographic, I know how cynical and close-off this group can be. However, I was happily incorrect. The group started off rocky as they did not appear to take the topic seriously at first and were not willing to have a mature, honest conversation. It was eye-opening for me to hear what these teenagers are going though in their lives. They have already experienced so much….Being in foster care and being a new parent are some of the adversities different than the average teen that these youth are facing. But aside from living life a bit different than the average teenager, they still have the same social pressures thrown on them that the average teen does. They are just as vulnerable to peer-pressure as anyone else their age; but what set them apart was how heartbreaking it was to hear some of them speak and agree that they did not feel the need to avoid substance abuse because they did not feel their Empathy was shown from the facilitator to the youth, as well as from youth to youth. The youth to youth support was especially important as it allowed the teens to know that they are not alone in their situation and that others like them can relate and offer support. Empathy was also shown in a subtle way by the facilitator by being attentive when a youth was speaking and did not interject with judgment. Furthermore, this attentiveness from the facilitator was executed through open-ended questions; this allowed the facilitator to help guide the conversation to continue, but did not force the facilitator’s opinion on the individual or persuade them. This allows for the most honest dialogue, and then allows for more effective advice to be given. Both the facilitator and the peers gave possible alternatives to the issues the teens were facing that were discussed. In addition, information regarding substance abuse facts, where they could get more information, and who they could talk to further was provided. The facilitator gained the trust of her group participants by utilizing self-disclosure and interjected person experiences and methods that worked for her; which allowed the teens to see that it is possible to bounce back from peer-pressure and become successful. This made the youth more willing to share as they felt the facilitator understood their stance and trials. However, confrontation was used when a teenager may

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