Gender Roles In Romeo And Juliet

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In William Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet, a recurring theme is the power struggle between parent and child for control over the child’s future. The term “parent” not only includes the biological mother and father, but also parental figures in the young lovers’ lives. These roles vary from supportive and loving, like the Montagues, Friar Lawrence and the Nurse, to cruel and controlling, like Lord and Lady Capulet.

At the beginning of the play, Lord and Lady Capulet have conflicting views about Juliet’s future. Juliet’s father initially believes she is too young to consider marriage. He says to Paris, “My child is yet a stranger in the world./ She hath not seen the change at fourteen years./ Let two more summers wither in their pride/ Ere …show more content…

Lord Capulet says, “Sir Paris, I will make a desperate tender/ Of my child’s love. I think she will be ruled/ In all respects by me; nay, more, I doubt it not’’ (3.4.12­14). Juliet is less than thrilled when Lord Capulet schedules an immediate wedding date, just a few days off, and communicates to him her refusal to marry Paris. In response, Lord Capulet says. “Hang thee young baggage, disobedient wretch!/ I tell thee what ­ get thee to church a Thursday/ Or never after look me in the face” (3.5.160­162). Whereas he seems concerned for his young daughter’s well being at the beginning of the play, his words become cruel in response to her disobedience. Having uttered these cold words, it is surprising at the end of the play that he seems upset when he learns of her death. …show more content…

When Lady Montague is first introduced, she is expressing relief that her son was not present to witness a fight. “O where is Romeo, saw you him today?/ Right glad I am he was not at this fray” (1.1.111­112). Her love for Romeo is so strong, that upon learning of his exile, later in the play, Lady Montague dies of heartache. Lord Montague is similarly portrayed as a loving parent. He comes to Romeo’s defense when speaking to Prince Escalus. “Not Romeo, Prince, he was Mercutio’s friend./ His fault concludes but what the law should end,/ The life of Tybalt” (3.1.180­182). The next time Lord Montague appears in the play, he is offering the Capulets a statue of Juliet made of pure gold to end the rivalry that resulted in their children’s death. It is likely that Shakespeare included less detail about the Montagues, because their relationship with Romeo is far more simple than the relationship of the

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