Gender Differences

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Being a male or a female is the most important determinant of the person’s directions and interests in his/her life. To possess and exhibit the suitable gender characteristics is not an easy mission. The rules of this mission are either inherited or placed by the society. Even though no specific person organizes those rules, the society expects everyone to obey. Gender rules may be strict, and they may put the person under unfavorable pressure. Nevertheless, most people accept them, and maintain their gender characteristics involuntarily. Males and females differ in almost all characteristics. They are different in the way they express their feelings, and in the way they react in response to most situations. Gender differences can be easily observed in any situation where men and women get together. Ernest Hemingway and Charlotte Perkins Gilman are two authors who succeed in illustrating the gender disparity in their stories “Hills like White Elephants” and “The Yellow Wallpaper.” Each one of them uses the story to depict men and women in certain ways. By analyzing those two works, the implied statement that the authors make about the behaviors and characteristics of each gender can be conceived.
“Hills like White Elephants” is a story about a couple who is in conflict in regards to whether or not to abort their unborn child. The American man is in favor of aborting the child because he enjoys his freedom and does not want to settle down and raise a family. Jig seems to find this decision a very difficult one to make because she cares about this baby, and she measures the American man’s love to her by his willingness to have their child. The story is a dialogue in which the American man is persuading Jig that it is better for t...

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...According to a research about Gender differences across cultures, “For example, because men in all cultures are physically stronger than women, they may universally be assigned roles as leaders, and in these roles may learn to become more assertive than women.”(Costca, Terracciano, and McCrae 324). Still, cultures control gender rules to some extent. The same research exemplifies that “Even if all cultures show the same pattern of gender differences, they may show variations in the magnitude of differences seen. In some cultures, gender differences may be exaggerated; in others, they may be masked.” ( Costca, Terracciano, and McCrae 324). In my opinion, even if the new open minded cultures try their best to reduce the differences between the two genders, some differences cannot be diminished because they are important to the healthy development of the cultures.

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