Fatherhood Observation Paper

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Viewing this picture for the first time was very different to me because it is an image you would rarely see. A father doing his daughter's hair while her face beams with a wide smile on her face. This picture is breaking society's stereotypical idea of what fatherhood involvement should be. Usually, a mother bonds with her daughter in different many ways such as cooking, and doing her hair while the father works and doesn't include himself in any of that. Fatherhood involvement to many would be a father spending time with their children, taking them for ice cream, or even going out to the park.This image breaks the thought because the father is doing something that a mother would do, he is involving himself in her life by just simply doing her hair. Fatherhood involvement is described as a father being involved in his son or daughter's life positively. There are many different perspectives when it comes to fatherhood involvement. Many define fatherhood involvement as a father being there for their child when the child is in need, engaging in activities with the child. Taking responsibility and providing resources for the child is also another way society thinks fathers should be involved in their child's life.

The little girl's radiant smile was so wide that her dimples began to show, you can tell that she knows her dad is …show more content…

The man in picture did her hair in a comfortable environment so she would be able to feel the fatherly love in a more comfortable environment. Most children tend to suffer from stress and have behavioral issues because of the pain they endure because of their father not being in their lives. The little girl's father understands that they don't have to go anywhere special for them to bond, just them in the living room while he does her hair makes a big

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