Examples Of Interpersonal Communication In The Great Gatsby

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The novel The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald embraces many different and abstract characters whose communication styles, skills and tactic are influenced by many lifestyle variables. Their self-concepts are driven by their ignorance, and their cultural norms and wealth lead them to make poor choices throughout the story that build each character’s profile and initiate interpersonal communication, contributing directly to their sense of identity. One of the main characters J. Gatsby is a very evident example of this. Gatsby is a perfect example of interpersonal communication by being a character composed of a desire to become his ideal self, a character vulnerable to judgement and perceptive flaws, and finally a character with self-esteem …show more content…

A self-concept is the way in which one think about one’s self and the way in which one sees themselves as a person. In The Great Gatsby, the main character falsifies his identity so elaborately that he completely lacks a sense of self, creating a self-concept that is skewed to many different influences and variable in his life. Adler argues that a self-concept is developed by comparing our “real self” with an idealized view of who one thinks they should be and how they should act. (Paci, Lecture Slides) For the character of Gatsby, this “real self” is not enough to win over his love, and therefore not enough to satisfy him. There are steps required to create one’s ideal self, including a social role, character growth and finally, lifestyle changes. First of all, Gatsby’s ideal self must fit into what is classified as a social role. A social role is a set of connected behaviours, rights, obligations, beliefs, and norms as conceptualised by people in a social situation, and Gatsby accepts his social role when he interpersonally decides that it is the only way to achieve his desires. In Gatsby’s early life, this is an unattainable version of himself so he moulds his identity into an ideal that Daisy approves

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