Dilemma Of A Ghost Eulalie Belonging

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In Ama Ata Aidoo’s play The Dilemma of a Ghost, the audience sees the difficulty the modern American woman Eulalie faces when confronted with the traditional African taboos and culture. Aidoo writes of the idea of abandoning a piece of oneself in order to be socially acceptable within the society, or face being labeled as “unadaptable,” as Eulalie struggles with throughout the story. Shown to be a complex and difficult task, the question of assimilation rises as the audience sees the battle between keeping one’s own values, or changing to become socially acceptable in an unfamiliar society, as the play progresses from negative instances of cultural exchanges to finally accepting one another in the end.
“He has not taken this girl/ Whom we …show more content…

She responds sarcastically, “Is this taboo?” (267). The entire exchange between Ato and Eulalie in this scene shows that she is starting to become frustrated with the cultural taboos she is forced to adhere …show more content…

Traditional African marriages typically produce children as soon as physically possible, but in Ato and Eulalie’s marriage, neither of them want children, which is almost unheard of in African culture. Ato’s mother says, “Human beings deciding when they must have children? Meanwhile, where is God?” which shows a very contrasting view of reproduction between American and African cultures. Because Ato does not attempt to communicate the differences in culture to Eulalie or his family, it builds tension between the family and his relationship with Eulalie, furthering the divide between the two cultures. Ato’s mother’s questions shows exactly how traditional his family truly is, believing a marriage to be for the benefit of reproduction. This juxtaposes with the American view of reproduction, in which a couple typically decides when they want a child. Ato did not attempt to explain the difference in cultural beliefs, which led to tensions between Eulalie and his family, all because he did not think his family would understand, which shows that communication is a key component while attempting to assimilate into a new culture. Because Ato refused to

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